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AUTO TRIM NI WI CUSTOM WALL MIRRORS TIRES & ACCESSORIES NI=E11101B1111/ E ..ssi , VISIT OUR SHOWROOM 'Suggested List Price "CREATE the possible when you thought it was impossible..." SOUTHFIELD: 24777 Telegraph 353-2500 Other locations: Wayne and Lincoln Park FRIDAY, MAY 19, 1989 FOR CONSULTATION CALL 352-2264 One of the key issues facing the Jewish commu- nity today is the resettlement of Soviet Jews here, and more specifi- cally, what can be done to link the newcomers to their Jewish heritage. Until now, the American Jewish community has scored high marks for its ability to provide Soviet Jews with the basic tools — housing, job training and language in- struction — for starting a new life in this country. But we have failed largely in our ef- forts to have these im- migrants develop and main- tain Jewish ties, either religiously or in terms of organizational affiliation. As a general rule, though, in the past decade or so, Soviet Jews in the United States have assimilated into the mainstream culture so quickly that when follow-up efforts were undertaken by the Jewish community to learn about the acculturation process of the immigrants, most of them couldn't even be found. This raises serious ques- tions about the very purpose behind our dedicated, serious efforts to help free Soviet Jews. If that purpose is not for them to fulfill the Zionist dream and go to Israel (since only a handful go), and if most of them never explore their own Jewishness or pro- vide a Jewish education for their children, why are we spending so much time, energy and money on freeing them? On a religious level, we are commanded, as Jews, to rescue our brethren who are held captive. This mitzvah in the Torah should be enough of an impetus. But what would the Torah say about rescuing one's fellow Jews and then standing by as they abandon their Judaism? The truth is that for many of the Soviet Jews gaining freedom today, "Jewish" is simply a word stamped on their identification cards. Raised in a Communist so- ciety, they have never had an opportunity to practice Judaism and their religion is only a negative factor, an ac- cident of birth that has prevented them from being accepted by a university or hired in a first-rate job. I It is not fair of us to expect them to take the initiative in cultivating their Jewish roots when their ties to the religion are so tenuous. Until now, the Soviet Jewish resettlement process in the United States has been tinged with unrealistic expec- tations, poor timing and a measure of hypocrisy. Many American Jews expect the newcomers to be Sharanskys and Beguns, heroic Soviet Jews who risked their very lives to live as committed Jews. When these Americans learn that most of the Soviets coming here now are marginal Jews in search of political freedom and finan- cial security, they are disap- pointed and even hostile. And Soviet Jews can never fully understand why these American Jews, who have chosen to live in the United It is our responsiblity to give these Soviet Jews an opportunity to explore their Jewishness. States rather than Israel and who, for the most part, are not highly observant, are disap- pointed and upset that Soviet Jews aren't choosing to live in Israel and are far removed from Yiddishkeit. At least the Soviet Jews have an excuse for not being observant — they weren't allowed to be. "We tend to judge the Soviet Jews by our aspira- tions and ideals rather than by our reality or theirs," observed Gary Rubin of the American Jewish Committee, which held a consultation recently in New York on "The Acculturation of Soviet Jews to American Jewish Life:' Experts at the day-long meeting discussed various ideas and programming methods, but the main point was the need to make Jewish acculturation a priority. Such talks are going on locally as well, with leaders of the various Jewish agencies meeting to explore how best to reach out, Jewishly, to the newcomers. One issue for local leaders to keep in mind in their outreach efforts is timing. A Soviet Jew who has lived here for more than a decade once told me that while the Jewish community was eager