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The Who Is A Jew legisla- tion, proposed by Israel's Or- thodox parties, would dis- qualify non-Orthodox con- verts from automatic Israeli citizenship under the Law of Return. While a change in the Law of Return would not affect Rabbi Shiryon and her Israeli colleagues, it would "bring delegitimization across the seas" to Reform communities in the Diaspora, she said. Unlike Orthodox syna- gogues and yeshivot, Pro- gressive institutions in Israel receive no government funds. Members pay for their syna- gogues' operation. In addition, "Our rabbis have no authority to conduct weddings, bury our dead or perform conversions," Rabbi Shiryon said. Nevertheless, some 50 per- sons are converted each year under Progressive auspices. Rabbi Shiryon said she pre- pares about six persons an- nually in preparation for con- version. The Progressive Bet Din, or law court, of which Rabbi Shiryon is a member, performs the conversion, which includes mikveh (ritual immersion) for women and brit milah (circumcision) for men when necessary. Some of the non-Jews who approach Rabbi Shiryon are tourists who have met an Israeli and wish to remain in the country. Others come to Judaism through what the rabbi calls an inner con- viction. "We converted a woman from Sweden. She was a folk dancer and had been here many times. Her ties to the Jewish people were strong. Her family had hidden Jews during the Holocaust. "We tell them the conver- sion won't be recognized by Rabbi Kinneret Shiryon the authorities," she con- tinued. "It's not an easy deci- sion. These people have done a lot of thinking about it." Despite strong motivation, about half of those who begin the conversion process drop out, Rabbi Shiryon said. Most succumb to family pressure. "They don't want to create problems for their children," she noted. Offspring of a woman who received a non- Orthodox conversion will not be considered Jewish by Or- thodox authorities who are responsible for Jewish rites of passage in Israel. "Their children will have problems getting married here," she said. Often, Rabbi Shiryon will send the convert abroad for a Reform conversion certificate that will be accepted in Israel. Passage of Who Is A Jew would close that door for con- verts, the rabbi said. Natalie Simon, a native of Scotland, studied with Rabbi Shiryon before converting last summer. Her husband's work brought the couple to Israel. She said she was told by friends that an Orthodox conversion would save her problems. She refused be- cause she didn't believe in the strictures of Orthodox Judaism. "I would have cheated on myself," she said. "I would have converted for the total- ly wrong reasons. "Reform can't seem to get a foothold in this country." she continued. "They can't seem to get the message out to secular Jews." Rabbi Shiryon agreed. "Israelis believe that authen- tic Judaism is Orthodoxy." Israel's secular majority has given the Orthodox a disproportionate share of power because Judaism isn't a priority for the average Israeli, she said. "They aren't willing to fight for it." The goal of the Progressive movement is to bring Ju- daism into the mainstream of Israeli society, she said. "Right now Judaism is on the fringe. Think of Judaism here and you think of black hats, draft dodgers and ex- tremists." lb achieve its aim, Rabbi Shiryon's congregation has established the Center for the Development of the Jewish Family. Similar to programs begun in the United States, it attempts to make Judaism a family project rather than just prayers for adults and religion lessons for children. Rabbi Shiryon, born in New York and raised in California, received her ordination in 1981 from the Reform He- brew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion. She would like to see Judaism in Israel follow the American model where Or- thodox, Conservative and Reform rabbis work together "Our rabbis have no authority to conduct weddings, bury our dead or perform conversions." when they can agree to dis- agree the rest of the time. This detente could be extend- ed to conversions, she said. "I would like to see a stan- dard for conversions. There's a lot of ground where we can agree, but it's so easy to ex- aggerate the differences. What it means is that all of us would have to com- promise." Rabbi Shiryon moved to Israel with her Israeli-born husband six years ago. She came to Kehillat Ramat Aviv in 1984. At that time she was Israel's only woman rabbi. The Progressive movement differs from its American counterpart in a number of ways, she said. No mixed marriages are performed in Israel. Also, Israeli Pro- gressives have rejected the idea that Judaism may be determined by the father. The American Reform move- ment's adoption of patrilineal descent has been denounced by the Conservative and Or- thodox movements as a threat to Klal Yisrael, the uni- ty of the Jewish people. "The idea of Klal Yisrael has a stronger pull in Israel than in the United States," she said. 0