Romantic Weddings ■ N/ICDE)./k Continued from Page 16 which involves advertising and retail- ing, and tracks the trends. Here are the latest statistics from Bride's ■ 0P 1110011111101.1111111.110 ■1■. ■ FURNISHINGS : • Five million people were mar- ried in 1987, the sixth highest figure in United States history and up six percent in the past 10 years. • Ninety percent of all marriages survive. • Median age of first-marriage brides is 23.6 years, 25.8 years for grooms. • June is the most popular month for weddings, followed by (in order) August, July and September. The least popular months are March and November (a tie), February and January (last place). Elegant clothes, elaborate food, a majestic setting, and an average of 200 guests are the norm today, according to Loss. "People are going back to their traditional values and customs, and bringing back their ethnic heritage" in- to the ceremony and reception, Loss says. For example, bedeken, the ceremony of veiling the bride by the groom in conjunction with the sign- ing of the ketubah, the marriage docu- ment, is being practiced increasingly at Conservative weddings. But modern wedding couples want to combine tradition with an up- dated flair. Loss sees couples incor- porating the traditional aspects of the ceremony that appeal to them with their own creative touch, adding things like personalized vows and special music. The highly personal- ized weddings of the 1960s, held in such unusual places as mountaintops and meadows, are, in Loss' words, " passe in the 1980s." Taking the long view, the most dramatic change in weddings over the past ten years has been the role of the groom. Once his only duty was to show up on time and say "I do." Now, he may take an active part in planning the wedding or at least, his wishes will be consulted. More often, the bridal couple plans the ceremony and reception together, as well as picking out their Featuring the Latest Designs in: • Living Room Groups • Bedroom Groups • Entertainment Centers • Dining Room Groups DIRECT from ITALY • Fine China • Expresso/Coffee Sets • Bridal Registry • Server Trays • Clocks • Silverware 1952 Telegraph N. of Sq. Lake Rd. Bloomfield Design Plaza 332-7283 Mon. & Thurs. 10-8, Tues., Wed., Fri. 10-6, Sat. 10-5, Sun. 11-4 Photo F rames That Personalized Touch Unique G'fts CUSTOMIZED IMPRINTING ALWAYS 2 0 % OFF Custom F raming • STATIONERY • • INVITATIONS • • ANNOUNCEMENTS • • PERSONALIZED ACCESSORIES • • HOSTESS & ATTENDANT GIFTS • D ,, II I Something Special For That Memorable Occasion Professional Picture Framing Free Estimates & Consultations W. 12 Mile Rd. at Evergreen 424-9998 Beverly Dovitz Sue Weisenfeld 661-0177 a les onlimmited Telegraph Rd. at Maple 626-3130 Orchard Lk. Rd. at 12 Mile 553-3320 , THE JEWISH NEWS 93