Romantic Weddings LUXURY WITHIN YOUR REACH. THE BERKSHIRE HILTON OF ANN ARBOR STATE STREET AT 1-94 761-7800 couples should be sensitive to their children's feelings and not force them to take a greater role than they want to. While the above are nationwide trends, Rama does note regional differences. In California, the head of catering for the Fairmont Hotel told her that American cuisine — "light sauces but subtle, elegant," she says — is favored. Dessert tables have "very elaborate, very gourmet" choices; a typical table might offer raspberry tart, chocolate mousse, chocolate mud cake, cheesecake with kiwi topping, and fresh fruit with raspberry topping. Music and dancing are important elements. "He said that people want to have a wild, great time, and for that reason, buffets are more popular than sit-down dinners." In New York, no particular cuisine or style of entertaining stands out in popularity over another. But in the South, "it's a different scene," Rama says. "I go to bridal shows in Dallas and everyone is dressed to the hilt. They pull out the stops. The weddings go on for a weekend, and out-of-town guests do not pay for a single meal — there are barbeques and brunches and et cetera. Besides the wedding, the whole week end is a celebration." n BY BARBARA PASH HOSTED IN THE FINE TRADITION OF ERIC YALE LUTZ & ASSOCIATES Award Winning Photography by Buz Holzman W 0TOGRAPHERS 284 S. Hunter, Birmingham 540-6922 16 BREI)kS 1989 Tradition And All The Trimmings \V eddings are in fashion, with all the trimmings:' says Edith Loss, exec- utive editor of Bride's magazine. Loss supervises the mer- chandising department at Bride's, Continued on Page 93