110, 1 Adults Have Fond Chanukah Memories friany of us can look at is past without a tear or /warm feeling from the gy res the holiday brings? Mber having the whole family ger . for latkes, jelly donuts and dreidel? Or, what about getting Chanukah gelt that burned a hole in your pocket? Remember learning the blessing over the candles in Hebrew school and practicing it over and over so when the special night arrived you were to recite it proudly? 7- Everyone has their own notions } r / of what Chanukah means to them. The residents at the Jewish Home for Aged, at its Borman Hall, Prentis Manor and Fleischman Residence facilities shared their memories with L'Chayim. Following are some of them: "Chanukah means everything in the world to me. I am an Orthodox Jew and have lived at the Jewish Home for Aged for nearly 30 years. They always make Chanukah a wonderful event here and the tradition is a special part of being Jewish." — Rose Lopates Borman Hall The Symbols Of Chanukah By BEA KRIECHMAN The most important symbol of Chanukah is the eight-branched menorah, called chanukiah. Another name for Chanukah is the Festival of Lights. There are eight specific rules about the lighting of the chanukiah: It should be lit in a window or a place where all will see, so that "the miracle is made known." The candles are lit immediately at the appearance of the stars and --should burn for at least one-half :our. During the time the Chanukah , candles are burning, their light may not be used for any other purpose, such as to light something or to read by. We are to enjoy the light, to remember the miracle they symbolize and to praise God. The shamash, the helping or serving candle, is to be placed higher than the others. Facing the chanukiah, the first candle is placed in the right holder. One additional candle is added each night. When lighting the candles, ;always light them from left to right, _y-/- honoring the new candle first. Two blessings are recited followed by the lighting of the candles by the shamash. On the first night of Chaukah the Shehecheyanu is added to the blessings to thank God for reaching this special season. The Festival of Chanukah is a happy time. It is celebrated by doing those things that give happiness and joy. Gifts are exchanged, songs are sung and there is a special game for the holiday, dreidel (Yiddish) or s'vivon (Hebrew) meaning top. It is a four-sided spinner with a Hebrew letter on each side. The letters are nun, gimel, hey and shin. They stand for Nes Gadol Haya Sham, meaning "A x 0 great miracle happened there." In Israel, the letter shin is replaced by the letter pey, for the word poh, changing the words to "A great miracle happened here." The rules for playing the game, while any number can play, are: Each player puts a penny or any other object in the middle of the pot. The s'vivon is spun by one player at a time. Whether the players wins or loses depends on which face of the top is up when it stops spinning and falls. Nun means "nothing." The player does nothing. Gimel means "all." The player takes everything in the pot. Hey means "half." The player takes half of what is in the pot. Shin means "put in." The player adds an object to the pot. When only one object or none is left in the pot, every player adds one. When an odd number of objects are in the pot, the player rolling hey takes half the total plus one. When one person has won everything, the game is over. It is uncertain as to how the custom of Chanukah gifts started. Until fairly recently, only money was given on Chanukah, and only on one night. Today, the few coins that were given as Chanukah gelt or D'mai Chanukah, have grown into elaborate presents and even to gifts given on every night of the festival. Latkes (Yiddish) or I'vivot (Hebrew) meaning "pancakes" are the special food for Chanukah. There are many legends about why potato pancakes are eaten on Chanukah. One story claims that the Maccabees survived on potato pancakes, when they fought the Syrians. Another story has to do with the significance of the oil that is used for frying the pancakes. Mrs. Kreichman is principal of the Adat Shalom Branch of the United Hebrew Schools and head principal of the UHS. "At Chanukah, we eat plenty of latkes which I help make. It is a gay holiday which brightens up the lives of Jewish people. I also enjoy playing dreidel and hope many Jews will come to Borman Hall during the holiday." — Ira Boykansky Borman Hall "Chanukah is a joyous holiday, when I can get together with my children and grandchildren. My sons-in-law make the latkes and being with the family makes me feel good." — Bessie Cohen Borman Hall "It's a good holiday, because most people observe it. Chanukah doesn't let them forget they're Jewish." — Benjamin Rosenthal Borman Hall "At Chanukah, I always look forward to giving presents to children. They don't always know the meaning of the holiday without gifts. I've always lit the candles as a religious symbol." — Eva Silk Prentis Manor "Chanukah is remembered as a very distressful period in history and as the end of the first struggle for freedom. It lasted for hundreds of years through generations. We should consider Chanukah a celebration like the American Fourth of July." — Fannie Levin Prentis Manor "This is a yontiff shaynah. There isn't another one like it. We eat Chanukah latkes and we are feeling very happy about it. — Gussie Wringler Fleischman Residence "I'm happy when we can get together as a family with grandchildren. We can do that at Chanukah and we have a good time. When I was a little girl, my mother taught me to light the candles and I still do it with electric bulbs in my room." — Pauline Miller Fleischman Residence "As an Orthodox Jew, I believe in Chanukah and all of the holidays. It's a festive occasion. Each holiday has a different significance, but all of them have to do with faith in God and His ways. We sing Chanukah songs, and when my children were younger, we used to give gifts." — Rachel Bodzin Fleischman Residence Facing The 'December Dilemma' Each December at holiday time, Jewish students in public schools must face the "December Dilemma," maintaining their Jewish identity amid the onslaught of Christmas celebrations and festivities. Four local teenagers recently responded to a L'Chayim questionnaire on the issue. Here are their responses: "I know that I enjoy celebrating Chanukah as well as every other Jewish holiday and being public about it. The non-Jews should be allowed to celebrate their holidays as they wish, as long as it doesn't interfere with my life. Being around non-Jews who celebrate Christmas only strengthens my Jewish identity. West Bloomfield keeps Christmas pretty low key because they realize the large percentage of Jews. Unfortunately, if they did make more of a fuss about Christmas, I don't think that many people would be offended. It just comes down to their right to pride in their religion." — David Tessler, 18 West Bloomfield High School "At West Bloomfield it isn't very difficult to maintain a Jewish identity. To counter any Christmas propaganda I do encounter, December is a month in which almost all of my attention is focused on our (B'nai B'rith Youth Organization) regional convention." — Robert Weiss, 17 West Bloomfield High School "Luckily in my high school, it is not a problem. We have many programs dealing with both Jewish and Catholic holidays. One is not stressed more than the other. In addition, I have no problem maintaining my Jewish identity." — Lisa Eidelman, 17 Berkley High School "My school advertises the holiday season, not the Christmas season. Nearly every minority is represented in the student population, including a great number of Jews, so I don't have a problem maintaining my Jewishness." — Becca Broder, 16 Berkley High School THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS L-3