tvel Building Of Family Sukkah Brings Special Joy To Holiday By RABBI DAVID A. NELSON No one consulted me when the Jewish calendar was set up. Had the Almighty spoken to me, I would have suggested waiting a little longer between Yom Kippur and the onset of Sukkot. Two weeks, at the very least, would have helped considerably in preparing for "the most joyous of all festivals," as the Bible describes it. However, it is clear from reading the Torah that Sukkot comes on the heels of Yom Kippur, and the custom arose of knocking in at least one nail of the sukkah upon the completion of Yom Kippur. For several years, following the Ma'ariv service, surrounded by young children, I have picked up a hammer and proceeded to begin the building of the Beth Shalom sukkah. I am always reminded, when I do that, that one is always actively involved and engaged in preparing for the next holy moment in Jewish life. We never remain static. "It wasn't until I built my own sukkah . . . that I discovered that Sukkot was really fun." There was a time, when I was growing up, as the son of a Conservative rabbi in Bridgeport, Conn., that hardly anyone constructed a family sukkah. Naturally, our synagogue put one up, but it was very rare to see a sukkah in someone's backyard. It wasn't until I built my own sukkah, and if you know how talented I am as a carpenter, you know that it was Sukkot Humor A man went to his rabbi and asked, "How does one build a sukkah?" The rabbi responded, "Look in the Talmud, Sukkah 65b, and check out the Rashi at the top of the page. There he gives exact directions for building a sukkah." The man returned home, studied the Rashi, and followed Rashi's instructions to the letter. But, alas, when he had finished, the sukkah, which looked perfect, collapsed. He returned to the rabbi and queried, "Rabbi, I followed Rashi 100 percent and the sukkah fell down. Why?" The rabbi looked at the man and responded, "You know, the Tosafot (commentator) asked the same question!" L-4 FRIDAY, SEPTEMBER 23, 1988 my wife, Alicia, who built it, that I discovered that Sukkot was really fun. All those years I thought I was having fun, rejoicing with the lulav and etrog. Truthfully, there's only so much fun you can have with a lulav and etrog. We tried so hard. We even made jelly from the etrog, which was beyond awful. When we lived in Brazil, we used to import "religious lemons," which was the way we described them for the customs authorities. Of course, there are beautiful interpretations that fill many books on the significance of the lulav and etrog. Traditionally, it has been seen as the symbol of Jewish unity — the combination of three differing species of fruits into one — the branches of palm (lulav), the boughts of myrtle (hadassim) and the willows of the brook (aravoth). The Midrash explains the symbolical significance of the four plants which are held together: • The etrog has both taste and fragrance. • The palm has taste but no fragrance. • The myrtle has fragrance but no taste. • The willow has neither taste nor fragrance. Similarly, the comparison is thus made that: • Some Jews have both learning and good deeds (etrog). • Some have learning — taste — but no good deeds (palm), fragrance (longer lasting). • Others have good deeds (myrtle) but no learning. • Still others (willow) have neither learning nor good deeds. Therefore, God said: "Let them all be combined together and they will atone one for the other (Leviticus Rabbah 30:12). Hence our view that the four species symbolize the four types of people, who, 'though different in character, must live in unity and mutual understanding, if not complete agreement. Today, more than ever, we need all four species to be held together. It is a source of great pride in each congregation to see a long and beautiful procession in the synagogue with lulav and etrog. For family involvement there is no greater opportunity than Sukkot. Imagine building your own sukkah. You can consult the Jewish Catalogue or you can design your own individual creation. This is one of the best Jewish do-it-yourself projects with which I am familiar. Even in Michigan, our children, when they were younger, slept in the sukkah and thereby special memories were created that, I'm certain, will always be linked in their minds with the joy of Sukkot. I love going to synagogue, but when I lived "BMOS" (before my own sukkah), Sukkot meant that special programs in the synagogue and .the special kiddush, but the excitement is in the sukkah, even in Michigan where you can safely assume that it will be chilly and raining as you sit down in your sukkah. That adds to the challenge. Once we survive getting ready for Sukkot, it is time to celebrate the concluding days of Shemini Atzeret or Simchat Torah. Shemini Atzeret includes the Yizkor prayers and helps us reflect on the transitory and fleeting nature of life itself. We link ourselves with past generations and hope that we are living up to the sacred duties and responsibilities left to us by the generation before us, with whom we are reunited by means of the Yizkor prayers. Judaism balances the sad moments with the joyous ones, and we build up to the exquisite joy of Simchat Torah when we conclude and begin anew the Torah. We never cease to hear the words of the Torah, and the moment we conclude the fifth Book of Moses, we immediately begin reading the opening chapters of Genesis. The message of the continuity of Torah could never be more poignantly taught. We are Jews, as Saadia Gaon taught, by virtue of the Torah alone. We proudly march with the scrolls around the sanctuary, we dance, and we link ourselves with our heroic Soviet brothers and sisters who have made Simchat Torah a living symbol of their Jewish identity. It is on this night that they gather by the tens of thousands, and dance, sing and celebrate their pride in their Jewishness. They, at great peril, have shown us that you have to be willing to make a sacrifice, and take risks in order to demonstrate publicly that they are finding great joy in the Torah. They are on our minds as we celebrate in the safe and blessed land of America. Young children crowd our synagogues and they learn that it is great fun to celebrate this wonderful holiday. They march, they wave flags, they sing and they will never forget the memories that are created by being in a synagogue or temple on Simchat Torah. We are constantly reminded how fortunate is our lot and how magnificent is our heritage. I hope that your Sukkot celebrations will bring you and your family members the joy that Sukkot has brought to my family. Rabbi David A. Nelson is the spiritual leader of Congregation Beth Shalom.