• r Everything seems to have a price tag today including being Jewish. The extent of Jewish affiliation is all a matter of values — and often of pocketbooks, too. ELIZABETH KAPLAN Staff Writer A 11 0 aron Wassermann loves school. Unlike many other 7-year-olds, he doesn't ask his parents why he has to go to Hillel Day School or why he can't stay home and watch television. But Aaron does frequently ques- tion his mother about one thing: Will he be allowed to stay at Hillel? - His mother, Nancy Marcus, always gives the same answer. "I don't know!' Grie thing prevents Marcus from giving her son a definite yes to his question. Money. Tuition at Hillel this past year was $3,950 for students not receiving financial aid. What makes the rising costs of day school tuition especially frustrating for Marcus, as well as many other Jewish families in the area, is that she believes so strongly in the program. Day schools are just the start of it. Virtually every area of Jewish life carries a hefty price tag. The cost of kosher meat soars above that of non- kosher meat; synagogue and temple dues take hundreds of dollars out of pocketbooks; and all those little necessary extras — from bar and bat mitzvahs to trips to Israel — add up to big bucks that stretch the budgets of many Jewish families. This situation troubles Jewish leaders like Professor Gerald Bubis, director of Jewish communal service at the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion in Los Angeles. Bubis, who has conducted numerous studies on costs in Jewish life today, says that some Jews are be- ing priced out of their religion. A 1985 study by the Council of Jewish Federations shows that although the Jewish community has always tried to make being Jewish available and affordable to all, grow- ing evidence suggests that a signifi- cant number of Jews may have dif- ficulty in meeting the cost of Jewish affilation and participation. The study focused specifically on synagogue dues, synagogue building fund pledges, Jewish education for children, membership in a Jewish Community Center and contribution to a Federation campaign. The first order of business for most Jewish families is affiliation with a synagogue or temple — despite the fact that this is not necessary for some of the most important expres- sions of Jewish life today. Children can receive a Jewish education through the United Hebrew Schools without belonging to a congregation; it's also possible to at- tend Shabbat services at any local temple or synagogue and no one will ask for proof of membership. Even the all-important High Ho- ly Day services, .which even the most disinterested Jews are likely to at- tend, are accessible to anyone. There's no need to affiliate with a congrega- tion — just buy Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur tickets and you'll get in. That's just the sort of option that disturbs some congregants who, as members, support their synagogue or temple year-round. "If we just support our congrega- tion on the High Holy Days, it may not be there when we need it — whenever that is," one man says. Still, those who opt solely for High Holy Day tickets may be doing so not because they don't want to join the congregation, but because they can't afford it. Tickets for Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur services at local synagogues and temples cost about $150; membership dues average $600. Two local congregrations have an- nual dues of more than $900, and building funds that run as high as $2,000. Another seven temples and synagogues have annual dues bet- ween $650 and $850, plus building fund dues. Cost, however, does not appear to be prohibitive. Two of the congrega- tions with the highest dues — Temple Israel and Shaarey Zedek — also have the largest membership. Temple Israel, with dues of $850-$900 a year, has 2,000 members, while Shaarey Zedek, with 1,800 members, costs $950. Most congregations make excep- tions for those who wish to join, but don't have enough money. At B'nai Moshe, for example, those with finan- cial constraints may negotiate their membership dues by bringing their income tax papers to the synagogue's dues committee for review. According to Rena Tobes, acting Jewish vs. Comparable Non-Jewish Organizations Hadassah 25 Zionist Organization of Arnerica 50 55 Junior League Arab-American Anti- NAACP AI PAC 50 20 Discrimination Committee American Jewish Committee 75 35 League of Women Voters JCC Family Membership 375 administrator for B'nai Moshe, membership dues should pay for no less than 80 percent of the synagogue's budget, the rest coming from contributions and fund-raising efforts. Congregational dues are unknown at churches, which are sup- ported solely through donations. The amount brought in by donations varies, but it almost always is a figure lower than the combined total of synagogue and building dues. A recent survey by Father Andrew Greeley found that Protestants average $580 a year in donations to their church, while Catholics give $320 a year. The Mormon Church does not charge membership fees and no statistics are available on how much the average Mormon family donates, but a church official in Salt Lake Ci- ty said he's confident "a healthy percentage of our members are faithful givers?' A "faithful giver" is one who gives 10 percent of his salary. Like Judaism, the Mormon Church teaches that its adherants should give 10 percent of their annual salary to charitable institutions. Unlike Judaism, none of this money goes to a religious leader's salary or administrator's fees; with the exception of a few officials who receive a nominal sum, the Mormon Church is comprised solely of lay leadership. Consequently, all dona- tions go for construction of new chur- ches, educational and missionary pro- grams, and related church projects. The HUC-JIR's Bubis makes a distinction, though, between the Jewish and Christian attitudes toward religion and money. 298 YMCA of. Metropolitan Detroit Brothers and nuns in the Catholic Church must take vows of poverty and receive only a stipend on which to live. The average salary for a priest is $7,525 a year, plus $18,851 in hous- ing, food, travel, retirement, in- surance and other benefits for a total of $26,376. Bubis challenges those who ad- vocate cutting a religious leader's salary as a way to solve financial pro- blems in Jewish life. Imagine, he says, that the salary of a rabbi who earns $100,000 is cut in half. That $50,000 will do very little toward reducing the membership fees and building fund dues of the thousands of congregants in his synagogue or temple. The salaries given religious leaders is not the only way in which Judaism differs financially from other religions. Jews support Israel, which can be very costly. Catholics contribute to the Vatican through the annual Peter's Pence, raising a little more than $32 million in 1986. That same year, American Jewry gave more than $353 million to Israel through the United Jewish Appeal. Local support for Israel ranges from those who drop nickels in a blue pushke to those who donate millions for the state. Experts say that a large percentage of Jews in Detroit give in some way — whether through the Jewish National Fund, Magen David Adom, the Allied Jewish Campaign or other organizations — to Israel. This generates a substantial figure. The 1987-88 Allied Jewish Campaign alone raised $25 million, 60 percent of which went to the United Jewish Appeal. Along with outright financial donations, many in the Jewish corn- THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 17