The wedding analogy will enable us to answer this. "If my spouse is merely a part of my life, then I'm not really married. My spouse must be first and central in my life. All I do, all I produce must be within the context of the relationship I have with my beloved." Similarly, all we Jews do, all we produce must be for the Almighty. If God is merely a part of our lives, if our vows as stated in Torah and our being Jewish are only parts of our lives then we have no God, no Torah and no Judaism. We express this by bringing the first fruits of our labor to Jerusalem, God's city, and our home. This shows that "all I have and do is meaningful only within the context of my relationship with You!" Shavuot Paper Cuts What You Need: Colored Paper White Paper Scissors, Glue What You Do: 1. To make the Ten Commandments; Fold a piece of white paper in half. Cut a curve along the top two edges. Fold the paper in half again. Cut five shapes on the long folded side. Unfold and glue the papercut onto colored paper. How can we use Shavuot to enhance our Jewish identity today? We are living in times of great contrast. We are witnessing a Jewish resurgence. Torah is being studied by more Jews now than in Europe before the last war. Traditions are being understood and followed. Jews are wrestling with serious questions of identification and affiliation. Yet, we are still the only ethnic group in America with a negative population growth. We see the disenfranchisement of many. We feel emptiness which accompanies a life filled with the pursuit of money, status and the perfect physique. Shavuot calls to us all to re-establish the relationship. It demands from us, not to accept symbols of Torah, but to accept Torah. Shavuot beckons us to live as Jews without compromise. Pel t 2. To make a Star of David design: Fold a circle of white paper in half and in half again. Then fold in each side to make an ice cream cone shape. Cut off the bottom point with a slanted line. Cut out shapes along the folds on each side and along the top. Unfold and glue the papercut onto colored paper. From "More Let's Celebrate" by Ruth Esrig Brinn. Send Letters Of Support To Refusenik Family One way to learn about Jewish life around the world is to write to a Jewish family in another country. What is daily life like in the pen pal's country? What is Jewish life like? How are the holidays celebrated? To help our readers learn about Jews around the world, L'Chayim is making available addresses of Jewish families in communities abroad. Cost of an international air mail letter is 45 cents per half ounce. This month, the address of a Russian Jewish refusenik has been made available by the Soviet Jewry Committee of the Jewish Community Council. Before writing, please read these special rules for corresponding with Russian Jews: Letters should be personal, warm, sympathetic and should ask about birthdays, anniversaries and family events. Cards should be exchanged on these occasions and on the Jewish holidays as well. Avoid any anti-Soviet material and refrain from mentioning names of Soviet Jewry rescue organizations. Russian, Yiddish, Hebrew or English may be used. The standard way of addressing a letter to the Soviet Union is the reverse of the USSR, Name of American way: Republic, Name of City, Address, Addressee (last name first). This month's pen pal is losef Latinsky, a graphic artist who resides in Leningrad with his wife, Olga, a mathematics teacher and daughter, Anna. The family had applied in November 1979 for an exit visa and was refused in 1980 on the grounds of "absence of parental consent." At the time the Latinskys began to gather the necessary documents for applying for an exit visa, Mrs. Latinsky's parents were angry with her for wanting to leave and refused to give their written consent. They demanded money as commpensation. The couple paid her parents 1,000 rubles, but had to sell many of their personal belongings to raise the money. Then, Latinsky's parents made a similar demand, and another 1,000 rubles had to be raised. After applying for the visa and receiving a refusal, the Latinskys' telephone was disconnected and they lost their jobs. In August 1981, the Latinskys applied again, only to be refused on the grounds of "insufficient kinship." Soviet officials told them that the invitation from an aunt in Israel was inadequate. They had to submit new documents sent by a first degree relative in Israel. Meanwhile, the Latinskys have been made Israeli citizens. Letters may be sent as follows: USSR, RSFSR, Leningrad 196283, Oleko Dundicha 19, korp.3, Kv. 144, Latinsky, losef. (L'Chayim has learned, meanwhile, that Grigory Rozenshtein, who was profiled in the March edition, has received permission to leave the Soviet Union.) Mailing To Russia? Booklet Gives Help The U.S. Postal Service has made available a guide for sending mail to the Soviet Union entitled, Mailing to the Soviet Union. The booklet covers what kind of mail can be sent to the Soviet Union, restrictions and prohibitions and other relevant topics. The booklet is available at the Southfield Post Office, 357-3310. THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS L-3