SINGLE LIFE It's A Matter Of Scruples Dr. Howard Kamler says values plays a big role in relationships DONNA RAPHAEL Special to The Jewish News illr he thousands who march- ed in Washington this month demanding free- dom for Soviet Jews were demonstrating their values. So are the millions who buy designer jeans. Dr. Howard Kamler, professor of philosophy at Eastern Michigan University, who presents workshops on values clarification. and scruples, said values play an important role in everyday life. "Your relationships with' other people are framed by the ordering of your values:' Kamler said. "Yet, most people aren't really clear about how their values are related to each other or what their values are. "We all like to have a sense of ourselves," he said, "but when it comes down to looking at the fine lines of what we stand for, people have a tough time with that." Through games, role playing and conflict simulations, Kamler gets workshop participants involved in thinking about their own values and learning how to handle conflicts with the values of others. He has presented this workshop at the Jewish Com- munity Center and will offer it there again this spring. "It's an attempt to train people to think about their values and the hierarchy of their values and give pe- ple practice in giving reasons for the value decisions they make," Kamler said. Kamler distinguishes between two kinds of values. Personal values give a person individual identity. They are values a person holds regardless of what others think, Kamler said. For example, attitudes about human rights, arms reduction, abortion or euthanasia are examples of personal values. "They give people a sense of who they are as unique individuals;' Kamler said. On the other hand, social identi- ty values are ones we adopt as members of groups. These give a sense of social belonging. "We seem to have fewer and fewer personal values and more social iden- tity values today;' Kamler said. In his workshop, Kamler also talks about scruples, which refers to putting one's values into action. "It's a matter of how committed a person is to action on their values, do they practice what they preach;' he said. "Everybody has values but not everybody has scruples," Kamler said. But the decrease in personal values does not mean our society is becoming immoral. "I think late 20th Century America is a time and place where living by scruples is great," he said. "We in this country have a lot of scruples relative to other times in history!' The news media make us keenly aware of our society's ills, Kamler said. "We're more aware of the dirt underneath the surface, but I don't think that can be equated with hav- ing less scruples!' Kamler said he disagrees with the popular view that politicians lead the list of unscrupulous people, followed closely by lawyers and business people. "After teaching a course in business ethics, I've been fascinated with the shortcomings of business, but with the power of the virtue:' Kamler said. "One thing I've learn- ed is that making a profit shouldn't be equated with being immoral." Speculating about the dating world, Kamler said there may be more people intent on showing social identity values than personal values. "Some people are determined to see themselves as unique individuals. But there are probably more people who want to show how hip they are, how much like the crowd they are!" Kamler has been studying philosophy of psychology and the no- tion of the self for nearly 20 years. He earned a doctorate in philosophy at the University of Michigan in 1971, and began teaching at Eastern while a graduate student in 1968. "My interest in values has evolv- ed over the years;' Kamler said. "I started thinking about value dif- ferences, how we form our values, what role values play in a person's sense of self-identity. "I'm interested in the role values play in structuring personal identity. That's what values clarification is all about. It is central to a person form- ing personal identity." Kamler wrote the books Com- munications: Sharing Our Stories of Experience, published in 1983, and Character and Personal Values, published in 1984. Interest in his values clarification workshops has grown since he first of- fered it two years ago at Eastern. This spring, he will ofer the workshop again at the Jewish Community Center. Kamler will offer a six-hour workshop on business ethics to the business community, using case studies to raise questions of scruples. "What I'm after in the business course is creating sensitivity in business people to the moral ques- tions being raised, not in preaching or moralizing;' he said. "The one thing that comes out of the workshop is that you have a bet- ter sense of who you are regardless of what other people expect!' 0 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 67