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To get total amt. multiply pymt. times 48. Subject to 4% use tax, 1st mo. in advance, sec. dept. equal to 1st mo. pymt., plate cost extra. ____.----______ -- a M "-N \ GRAND RIVER ' Just East of Novi Rd • Novi iL ic - 7 7 - - : _ r , • , , - • ' TELDKA 6 ,.// Chevrolet V I I a " I ; r ., ..., Wilk : . til HOURS Mon. & Thu. 9 Tu.. Wed.. Fri. 'til 6 FRIDAY OCT. 30, 1987 , g ;., 0 3 tf, . r. IA I; !... = gi . 348-7000 ' ' - - . < : 6 J young women, such as the metropolitan areas or college towns, according to the Har- bor line. But clearly, women aren't the only victims. "Rape also happens to men," the counselor said. "They call saying they feel they were coerced into sex. Rape is an act committed against another person's will. A man can be coerced into sex, though it's harder to im- agine!" According to U-M Sexual Assault Center director Steiner, one out of every ten men will be raped in his lifetime, compared to one out of every three women. "Men being raped is not uncommon. It happens to everybody. There's not a typical victim and there's not a typical rapist. We have instances of 93-year-old women and two- month-old babies. "You do know women who've been raped but you just don't know it. They've never told you. There's no reason they have to hide it. But that's what our culture told us — you just don't talk about it." Whethex. to man or woman, the date-rape scenario is almost always the same. Lisa is out with someone she knows and suddenly it's like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. One minute David was one way and the next minute he's changed. It's difficult to pinpoint the causes behind date rape. "The issues are control and anger," suggests Steiner. "But who is vulnerable to that search for control varies with the rapist. We can't always prevent it." Tips on preventing such situations are boundless. Basically, if you dont want it, say so. No one has the right to take another person against their will," said Troy Police Officer Phil Steele, who offers workshops in rape prevention throughout the community. "We're talking about a crime of violence and violation. Just a date or buy- ing them dinner doesn't mean they owe anything or any sex- ual favors in return!' Steele, who gives lectures on the subject to church groups, civic groups and Girl Scout troops, advises, "Make sure you know the person you're going out with. If it's the first date, double and go somewhere in public. It's im- portant that anybody who's out and about in society is aware of this type of crime. Your head is probably your best weapon. You should know what you can do to lessen your chances of becom- ing a victim!' In the last few months, a date rape prevention guide has been sent to campuses na- tionwide. "The sooner date rape is recognized as a serious problem, the sooner people can do something about it," said Bernice Sandler, co- author of the guide. Titled, Friends Raping Friends — Could it Happen to You?, the guide tells coeds to watch for: *Men who do not listen to you, ignore what you say, talk over you or pretend not to hear you. Such men general- ly have little respect for women and would be more Rape is an act committed against another person's will. A man can be coerced into sex, though it's harder to imagine. likely to hear 'no' as meaning 'convince me! *Men who try to make you feel guilty or accuse you of be- ing uptight if you resist their sexual overtures. *Men who drink heavily. A man drunk can get sexually aggressive, angry or violent if he is rejected. If struck by date rape, ex- perts say not to be silent. Any date rape victim should get a medical exam as soon as possible. Later, the woman should talk to a counselor about the pros and cons of reporting the rape to the police. The U - M Sexual Assault Center offers these preven- tion tips: If you don't feel comfortable with a friend's or date's behavior, say 'no! Be asser- tive. 'hell him to stop or leave. *Be aware of your surroun- dings in case you need to leave quickly. *Let friends or family know where you will be and when you will be back. *Be aware that rape happens in situations where the par- ties know each other. And be aware that alcohol and other drugs affect judgment and the ability to communicate. All this week, in its fight to combat date rape on campus, the U - M has been holding a Sexual Awareness Week, featuring open talks on the changing sexual roles of males and females, panel discussions on the issue of sexual assault, offering literature and pamphlets from booths set up around campus as well as special meetings for survivors of rape. Said Steiner: "If we are go- ing to stop date rape, we're go-