TORAH PORTION Send it for less at ... *M t To My Dear Family and Friends, Please accept my deep appreciation for your variety of expressions during my recent hospitalization. May God grant all of you everlasting good health. Ruth Traison 6453 Farmington Rd. (at Maple Rd.) The Way Of Aaron Is The Way Of Love RABBI MORTON F. YOLKUT Special to The Jewish News "Hillel said: Be of the disciples of Aaron, loving peace and pursuing peace, lov- ing people and drawing them nearer to Torah." (Avot 1:12). • The death of Aaron, brief- ly described in this week's se- cond sidrah, is described in stirring and dramatic detail in the Midrash. The Jewish people mourned for Aaron even more than they later did for Moses, for Aaron was a man who loved peace and pur- sued peace. It was as an eter- nal tribute to the first high priest of Israel that Hillel urged us to become disciples of Aaron by emulating his no- ble qualities. They are four in number. Shabbat Matot- Masei: Numbers 30:20-36:13, Jeremiah 2:4-28, 3:4 Ohev shalom — Love peace: To the man who is ambitious and opportunistic, peace is on- ly a truce, a poor second best to total victory for his own ruthless ends. In order to be a disciple of Aaron, you must not seek peace merely because it is the best arrange- ment under prevailing condi- tions, but because you love peace, because peace is the most desirable state of all. One of God's names is Shalom. Shalom is a positive virtue in its own right, not merely the absence of strife. Hence, one must not only hate war, but love peace. Rodef shalom — Pursue peace: Aaron not only loved peace, but actively pursued it, bringing it into existence where it had not existed before. The rabbis give us the following scenario in describ- ing his peace-making methodology: If Reuben and Simeon were not on speaking terms, Aaron would approach Reuben and say, "I met Si- meon the other day. He feels terrible that he upset you. He feels very sorry about the whole situation. He would like to make amends, but he feels that you would not ac- cept his hand in friendship." He then went on to Simeon and told him the same story about Reuben. Later, when Morton F Yolkut is rabbi of Cong. B'nai David. Reuben and Simeon met, each simultaneously offered his hand of friendship to the other. As a result of Aaron's active efforts, peace was achieved. Ohev et habriyot — Love peo- ple: The love of our fellow man can come from many sources. We may love our fellow man because he is human. In a deeper sense, that means we love another person because we love ourselves, and see ourselves in him. There is nothing wrong with that kind of humanistic approach. "Thou shall love thy neighbor as thyself' implies we must first love ourselves. But this is dangerous, for often this kind of neighborly love exists only where we feel a kinship of some kind between ourselves and the fellow man. But where there are differences in color or creed or background or opinion, this kind of love breaks down. Aaron 'was a man who lov- ed his fellow men. He loved them because they were created by God. In loving man he loved God, for the love of created and Creator were in- timately bound up with each other in his eyes. And when we love a man because he is God's creature, differences of race, belief and background can not affect that love adversely. U'Mekarvan le'Torah — Draw them nearer to Torah: The love of fellow creature may be expressed in many ways. Charity, respect, economic assistance, ap- preciation — are all signs of such love. But the greatest love of all is helping your friend find meaning in life in a manner that is worthy and dignified. With Aaron this, too, was reflected in concrete human relations. According to our rabbis, if Aaron knew of an Israelite who was lax in his -.religious observances, he would befriend him and take a personal interest in his life. Soon the man would say to himself, "When such a great man as Aaron is my friend, how can I violate the teachings of Judaism?" This was the way of Aaron — the way of love. He did not preach. He did not condemn. He did not excommunicate. Aaron simply enveloped peo- ple with love and friendship. In responding to the warmth of his personality, people came closer to Torah. 855-5822 Now Open! LAKEWOOD II FALL FASHIONS HAVE ARRIVED A KOSHER FISH MARKET AND RELATED ITEMS Complaisant 855-6566 25254 Greenfield Oak Park North of Ten Mile Rd. Near Zemans 967-2229 Hours: Mon.-Wed. 8:00-6:00, Thurs. 8:00-7:00 Fri. & Sun. 8:00-1:00, Closed Saturday J E W E L R Y Advertising in The Jewish News Gets Results Place Your Ad Today. Call 354-6060 APPRAISING IS OUR ONLY BUSINESS FOR INSURANCE SECOND OPINION & ESTATE LOVE ME BY APPOINTMENT BIRMINGHAM GEMOLOGICAL SERVICES, LTD. 251 MERRILL .BIRMINGHAM 644-8828 The Nikon Action • Touch. Weatherproof. Waterproof. 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