A fter 20 years of living under Israeli occupation, few Pal- estinians in the West Bank and Gaza would claim that some of their best friends are Jews. The level of debate between the two people remains a dialogue of the deaf; a dialogue that was given eloquent expression in the exchange of stones and bullets between Palestinian students and Israeli soldiers on a West Bank campus earlier this month. "The real friendships with Palestin- ians are those that transcend politics," says Dr Susan Rolef, editor of the Israeli Labour Party journal Spec- trum. "It doesn't happen often and most Israelis don't let it happen. They see it leading to mixed marriages or treachery." According to Abdel Wahab Darousha, one of seven Arab members of the Knesset, the 1.2 million Palestinians who inhabit the West Bank are not Israelis and do not aspire to become Israelis. "They feel no loyalty towards Israel and want no cooperation or coexistence with it," he says. "They want only to free themselves from the Israeli occupation." On the other hand, says 20 years since Israel occupied the West Bank and Darousha, who was elected to the Knesset in 1984 on the there are few signs of improved relations between Labour Party ticket, the 650,000 who live Jews and Arabs in the region. within the Arabs Green Line — Israel's pre-Six Day War boundaries — are Israelis. And, moreover, they are "loyal citizens" who seek coexistence and friendship HELEN DAVIS with their Jewish fellow Israelis. Unlike the Palestinians of the West Bank and Gaza who aspire to independent statehood, he says, "we Israeli Arabs will continue to be Israelis, whatever the ultimate solu- tion to the Middle East conflict." Dr. Hatem Abu-Ghazalah, a Cam- bridge University-trained Palestinian surgeon who lives in Gaza, concedes that "there are plenty of superficial rela- tions between Israelis and Palestinians. "There is, for example, enormous cooperation between Palestinian merch- ants in Gaza and Jewish merchants in Ashkelon; between underworld figures in Gaza and their counterparts in Tel Aviv," he says. "But real personal friendships," says Abu-Ghazala, who heads an organiza- tion for handicapped children in Gaza, DIALOGUE OF THE DEAF Jews and Arabs In the West Bank and Gaza It has been Gaza, but