• the sense of security to en- able their children to develop strong self-reliance, Maureen • ; believes, the ability to ac- / complish whatever they set out to do. Joy believes "a lot of par- ents are poorly disciplined. So many paients don't know if they are coming or going. 1 How can their kids? I really believe adults have a great ▪ deal of trouble with permis- siveness, and that a lot of mothers have a great deal of trouble leaving their own • /- teen-age years behind them." On the other side of the coin, she believes children need to take responsibility for their own actions. "If by the age of 20 or so, you are still dissatisfied with your childhood, it's up to you • ... ..... ........... • Give A Treat Persons wishing to do- nate candy or gifts through the Candy Lady can drop them off at the Laudau home, 24231 Gardner, Oak Park, or call the Landaus, 541-6884, be- fore Nov. 15. to do something about it. No- body will do it for you." Still,. both Landaus believe many parents simply don't spend enough time with their children. They maintain families can have fun and still follow the rules. "We've taken many, many groups of scouts and Camp Fire- Girls to the circus, to Boblo, to Cedar Point," says Joy, and "we've • never lost anyone." While the Landaus are de- voted to their family — they now have six grandchildren — they also fo'cus on other families through 'Oak Park Youth Assistance. ti 7 -) Both Lou and Joy have made a tremendous contribu- tion to the community with their involvement says Paul Scobie, Oak Park Youth As- sistance caseworker spe- cialist. "They've been particu- larly helpful to me since I joined the staff by acquaint- ing me with Oak Park's his- tory and lending much in- sight into the workings and nuances of the city." For years, Lou has also been the affable presence be- hind Lulu the Clown, a reg- ular participant in Oak - Park's annual July 4th parades. But Lulu has mixed success at home. "I get a big kick out of dressing up and trying to fool my granddaughters," Lou laughs. "But," says Joy, "Sharon's oldest daughter, Jennifer, asked him, 'Why aren't you ever home when Lulu vis- its?' " It might be because he's out collecting more can- dy. ❑ Now is lowest. SURGEON GENERAL'S WARNING: Cigarette Smoke Contains Carbon Monoxide. Competitive tar level reflects the Jan. '85 FTC Report NOW. THE LOWEST OF An BRANDS. SOFT PACK 100s FILTER, MENTHOL: 3 mg. "tar'', 0.3 mg. nicotine ay. per cigarette by FTC method. 53