with sexuality. But they have also become a controversial issue in the advertising industry. Much of the controversy centers on the Obsession ads, which were introduced earlier this year. The ads, strongly sexual in nature, have kept the Calvin Klein name in the headlines. Whether the ads or the ensuing publicity is selling his perfume, no one can say for sure. But Obsession "is now among the top three sellers in every major department store in the nation," Robin Burns, president of Klein cosmetics, is quoted as saying in a recent report on the subject. Reactions to this type of ad have ranged from outrage to indifference. Many view them as part of our society's sexual openness but Dr. Nikki Benokraitis, associate professor of sociology at the University of Baltimore and co-author of the book, Modern Sexism: Blatant, Subtle, and Covert Discrimination, regards them as very close to pornography. "The media creates needs and then it says, 'Listen, this is how you can meet those needs. When women look at an ad, they say, 'That's not like me at all,' but another part of them says, 'I would like to look like this.' The women are being fondled and loved. The older we get, the more we identify with it," Benokraitis says. "The cosmetic industry is successful, not because of the 18-year olds, but because of women in their 40s. Aging is scary, but why so much more for women? In terms of our values, it's a woman's attractiveness that is so important, while economic success is the value for men," she continues. "A lot of this is sexist, because it's not portraying Women. We are z . .