The needs of the elderly must be carefully matched to the facility's resources less. Many find that what seemed to be generous annuity or pension plans have been reduced to bare adequacy by inflation, making some degree of fi- nancial dependence on their children unavoidable. There are various ways in which the cost to the family can be partly offset by tax advantages, for example, through a dependent deduction (if cer- tain conditions are met), through an outright gift to the parent (up to $10,000 per year, per parent), or through schemes which tap home equities, such as the "Grannie Mae," a leaseback arrangement in which the child buys the parents' home, giving them the right to live there on a rental basis, which then entitles the family to the tax benefits of rental property ownership. However, these can re- quire a degree of capital or planning not available to many families, on whom a parent's chronic illness can put an almost impossible financial strain. Nursing home care, as Ralph Yamron discovered, can cost more than many people earn. The average cost of a bed in a semi-private room is between $60 and $65 a day. In-home services can be cheaper, especially if skilled nursing is not required, but costs can mount alarmingly. Homemaker and sitter services, for example, range from $6 to $16 an hour, often with a three-hour minimum. Most older people are covered by the government-funded Medicare pro- gram (or Medicaid, if low-income eligibility requirements are met), but both programs have strict limits of coverage. A rigid and often frustrating differential is made between skilled and basic care. For limited time periods, Medicare will pay all or part of the cost of skilled care but, contrary to popular belief, it does not pay for chronic, long-term nursing. Nor does it cover basic care (bathing, lifting, etc.). Medicaid will pay for both skilled and basic care, but its eligibility require- ments exclude many who cannot af- ford the necessary services. There is very little private insur- ance available to cover the cost of long-term custodial care. However, the American Association of Retired Persons is testing a policy, developed with Prudential, which is intended to cover long-term costs and will not exclude the chronically ill. Some sup- plemental "Medigap" insurance policies, including those recently in- troduced by B'nai B'rith, help to fill the gaps in Medicare coverage. The Yamrons fell through every gap. Ralph's mother's protracted and terminal illness had exhausted his father's savings and insurance cover- age. Basically, because Jack was liv- ing with the family and not paying rent, he was not eligible for Medicaid. Because he was not considered in need of skilled care (although, ironically, he was diagnosed thtee weeks before he died as having cancer), he was not elig- ible for Medicare payments. He was not sick enough to need nursing, but he was too sick to look after himself. We were not poor enough and not rich enough. Every door was closed to us," says Marlene Yamron. Some safety nets do exist. The Community Care Management pro- gram, run by the Area Agency on Ag- ing, is designed, says Elizabeth Sulli- van, to serve those who, for whatever reason, fall out of other program guidelines." Since it was started in May 1985, the program has helped about 85 frail, older people to "remain independent in the community, in their own home or the home of the family." Sullivan calls it a goal not only desirable but neces- sary as the numbers of frail elderly increase while Medicare and Medicaid payments are increasingly restricted. Most clients are referred by hospital discharge planners or home health agencies, but some are referred by so- cial service organizations, including the Jewish Family Service. Community Care Management staff develop "personal and indi- vidualized schemes of care" for each client, calling on the agency's com- prehensive range of services, which include adv ocacy, counseling and legal assistance as well as those which cater to physical needs. Attention is also given to the needs of the care-giver, who in many cases, is also elderly. The agency is a broker for community-based services in six coun- ties and most of its services are acces- sible to anyone 60 or over, regardless of income. "Care of the elderly and support for the family providing that care" is also a major concern of the Jewish Welfare Federation which acts, says staffer Lawrence Ziffer, as a "central planning resource and fundraising agency" for a wide range of organiza- tions and institutions within the Jewish community. Its aim, says Zif- fer, is to provide "a continuum of care for the Jewish elderly, whatever their income," in a network of services which include the institutional care provided by the Jewish Home for the Aged, in its facilities at Borman Hall, Prentis Manor and Fleischman Resi- dence; subsidized housing in the two Federation Apartments; and an exten- sive range of support services, many of them provided by the Jewish Family Service, one-third of whose case load is made up of the aged. In spite of the availability of sub- sidized agency help, many families remain in need for several reasons. Some are too proud to ask for aid. Others are unaware that services exist — a fact which has prompted the in- stitution of the Jewish Information Service, which, like the information Continued on next page Choosing A Home What do the experts recom- mend you look for in a nursing home? The first thing to check is whether it and its administrator are licensed. Determine whether it of- fers skilled or basic care, or both. Some residents, who do not require skilled care, are happier in basic care facilities. Others prefer to be where a sudden change in their condition will not necessitate a move. Check on emergency medical services and find out what routine, regular physical examinations are made. Do they include dental, hear- ing and vision check-ups? Ask the ratio of staff to patients and about the qualifications of the staff. Find out if physical, occupational and speech therapy are available and how the home provides for the men- tal health needs of residents. It is important to be clear about the home's payment policies. Medi- care and/or Medicaid payments will only be made to cover expenses in- curred in homes certified to partici- pate in these programs. Many homes prefer not to take Medicaid patients, since the payments are so low. Find out what happens to pri- vate pay patients who later apply for Medicaid, and to those who are reclassified from skilled to basic, or vice versa. Be sure exactly what is included in the basic charge. Some rates are comprehensive, but many are exclusive of "extras," which can include anything from wheelchairs to toilet tissue. Visit the home at least twice and preferably at meal times. Ask for a tour of the entire home and check that it is warm and clean. "Smell it," advises Renee Mahler of the Area Agency on Aging. "And don't be deceived by the odor of dis- infectant," which can be used to mask the smell of urine and dirt. Check the fire escapes and emer- gency exits. See if there are call but- tons by the beds. Notice how much privacy the rooms afford. A lot can be learned from ob- servation of the general atmosphere and the interaction of the residents and staff. Talk to both, if possible, and find out what recreational ac- tivities are scheduled on and off the site. Look for a home which encourages visitors and which you will feel comfortable visiting. Con- tinued family involvement and fre- quent visits can make a significant difference to a resident's well-being. 47