73 SINGLES C THE JEWISH CONNECTION a Successful Dating Service For • Single • Divorced $10.00 Off • Widowed with this ad MEN AND WOMEN OF — ALL AGES -.--- Call (313) 967-1034 or L.Z. PRODUCTIONS invites all singles 21 and over to its Memo- rial Day weekend singles party on May 25 at 8:30 p.m. at the Steak and Ale, Farmington Hills. Prizes, light snacks, music, cash bar and dancing will highlight the evening. There is a cover charge. COMMUNITY NETWORK FOR JEWISH SINGLES will have an evening of comedy and dancing at 9:30 p.m. Saturday at the main Jewish Community Center. Music will be provided by John Ray of WHND-AM. Come- dian Lowell Sanders will entertain. There is an admission fee. For details, call Jill Cole or Kim Kusterer, 661-1000, ext. 347. The CNJS dinner club will have dinner at The Koreana, 14537 Gratiot, Detroit, at 7 p.m. Monday. Reservations are re- quired. For information, call Miss Cole or Miss Kusterer. The CNJS announces a singles baseball league will begin at 9 a.m. June 1 at Brace-Lederle Field, Southfield. Harry Lipsitz is the coordinator. A drop-in game follows. For details, call Lipsitz, 661-1000, ext. 236 Wednesday or Thursday between 5 and 10 p.m. The CNJS will see the Detroit Tigers play the New York Yan- kees at 7:30 p.m. June 10 at Tiger Stadium at B'nai B'rith's annual Tiger Night. There is a fee for tickets and transportation. For tickets, call Miss Cole or Miss Kusterer. Deadline for tickets is June 1. For transportation, call B'nai B'rith, 552-8177. "The Endless Summer Slumber Weekend for Singles" at Camp Tamarack will take place Sept. 5-7. Activities include canoeing, boating, fishing, tennis, swim- ming, aerobics, games, runs, movies, bonfire, barbecue and more. Social worker Lathe Broder will speak on "Sex, Assertiveness and Intimate Relationships." The weekend is coordinate'j by Larry Rosenberg and Lea Trager. Deadline is Aug. 15 for reserva- tions. For details, call Miss Cole. B'NAI B'RITH MICHIGAN SINGLES will have a wine- and-cheese-tasting party at 8 p.m. Sunday at the B'nai B'rith Building. There will be a talk about wines. Everyone is wel- come. There is an admission charge. TEMPLE ISRAEL YOUNG ADULT GROUP'S second an- nual road rally will be held Thursday, beginning at 7 p.m. at Applegate Square. There is a nominal fee. For information, call Julie Rouff, 358-2988; or Steve Schneider, 352-4337. B'NAI B'RITH FRIENDSHIP SINGLES (21-35) will host a games night the third Wednes- day of every month. This month's is this Wednesday (correct date) at 7:30 p.m. at the Willow Park Apts. card room, 28675 Franklin, Southfield. There is a nominal fee and refreshments will be served. Non-members are welcome to play Trivial Pursuit, euchre, backgammon, Monopoly and more. Women are needed for the group's coed softball teams which play in a league on Sunday after- noons. Next practice is Sunday at 2 p.m. at the field on 11 Mile Rd. between Franklin and Inkster Roads, west of Franklin Park Towers. For information about any BBFS function, contact Phil Neuman, 357-1871; or Mike Rich, 968-0436. Write P.O. Box 2514 Southfield, MI 48037-2514 \. LOWEST FEE IN TOWN! DRESSMAKING 11* & BRIDAL n desty-te lid BRIDAL CUSTOM GOWNS DRESSMAKING ALTERATIONS DESIGNER FABRICS Toronto Invites Detroit Singles Metro Toronto Singles will have an inter-city Jewish singles party at 8 p.m. May 25 at the Richmond Hill Country Club, 8905 Bathurst N., Toronto. Singles from Toronto, Detroit, Buffalo, Montreal and Ottawa are invited. There is an admis- sion fee. For information, call in Toronto, Sid Dorfman, president, (416) 222-7111. To get to the country club: From Windsor, take Highway 401 east to Toronto. In Toronto, exit off Highway 401 onto Yonge St. N. Go north on Yonge St. to Sheppard Ave. (first major inter- section north of Highway 401). Go west on Sheppard Ave. to Bathurst St. Turn north on Bathurst. Go north about six miles on Bathurst to Highway 7 East. The Richmond Hill Country Club is onehalf mile north of Highway 7 east. 545-5490 2949 W. 12 MILE BERKLEY 48072 ..1=1 ■■■ Did You Remember to send someone a gift subscription to THE JEWISH NEWS? THE ONLY PLACE TO BE MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND is at L.Z. Productions SINGLES PARTY Sunday, May 25, 8:30 p.m. • Great Prizes • Light Snacks • Exciting Music• Cash Bar Steak & Ale . 12 Mile & Orchard Lk. Farmington Hills History Society Luncheon Planned Stan Meretsky, president, an- nounces the Jewish Historical Society of Michigan will hold its annual luncheon on June 1 at noon at Cong. Beth Achim. Dr. Todd Endelman, professor of history at the University of Michigan and specialist in Anglo-Jewish history and the so- cial history of Western European Jewish history, will speak on "The Use and Abuse of Jewish History — Misreadings of Jewish History." Dr. Endelman was educated at the University of California, Berkeley; Warwick University in England and the Hebrew Union College in Los Angeles. He re- ceived his Ph.D. degree from Harvard University. He has taught at Yeshiva University and Indiana University at Bloomington. He has written many books and articles and re- ceived the National Jewish Book award for history in 1979 as well as other awards. Guests are welcome. There is a charge. For required reserva- tions, call Evelyn Noveck, 661- 1642. Appointed Dr. Fredric A. Rivkin of West Bloomfield has been appointed by Gov. James J. Blanchard to the Michigan Employment Security Advisory Council. Cover Charge ONLY $5.00 — At The Door — All Singles 21 & Over — Welcome — $ 1oo OFF Cover Charge With This Ad I'M JEWISH AND I'M SINGLE Where Do I Go To Meet Other Jewish Singles? "I'm tired of the bars. You can't be sure the people you meet are Jewish and you can't even be sure they're single. At work everyone is married. Besides, I don't like to date people from the office — it leads to complica- tions. I've already met all the available singles in my so- cial circle. What now?" This is the refrain heard over and over by Millie and Claire — founders of LO-LA, the dating pro- gram for Jewish singles. It is heard all over the coun- try where similar programs are mushrooming in the Jewish community. Ironi- cally, as the number of Jewish singles grows to unbelievable proportions, the difficulty in making connections seems to get greater. Singles used to meet their partners in high school or college, in the synagogue or other Jewish institutions in a Jewish community which was tight-knit and close. Now our horizons have expnded, our diverse pro- fessions have made us mobile, our community is dispersed and heterogeneous. We need new solutions for new problems. And the Jewish doting service has come into its own. A growing number of singles find it expedient and useful to turn to specialists to help them meet others, to give fate a nudge as it were, instead of sitting back and waiting. In our own community two women have under- taken to start a dating program some two years ago. They called it LO-LA, in Hebrew, for him - for her. Millie Rosenbaum and Claire Arm were de- eply concerned about the rate of intermarriage, and attributed it to some ex- tent to the fact that eligi- ble Jewish singles just did not meet other congenial singles during the course of their normal social con- tacts. And so LO-LA was born. For a very modest fee, one of the lowest of any such service in the country, a single can be- come a member for a year. This membership is preceded by a no obliga- tion interview, at which time there takes place a discussion about the background, interests, preferences of the candi- date. During the course of the one year membership, names are submitted to the members by mail. These names are selected on the basis of the inter- view, and the memory, impressions and intuition of Millie and Claire. 40 ' F f WE'RE FIGHTING FOR YOUR LIFE American Heart Association These programs take all sorts of formats and pro- cedures. Some are purely mechanical, relying on new technology, the computer to accept input and spew forth output in the form of acceptable names. But the most suc- cessful are those in which personal attention, caring sympathetic listeners, dig- nity and confidenriallity are the bywords. Many of the people attracted to these services are the YUPPIES, successful, attrac- tive, educated people who have limited time for social life and would like to use the service as a screening procedure There is every desire, however, to cater to people of all backgrounds and all ages . 7. . In two years time, close to one thousand people have been interviewed. Hundreds have joined. LO-LA is very proud of nine marriages resulting from their introductions, al- though it considers itself not a matrimonial service but a dating program. LO-LA is proud of com- ments it receives — "I did not fall in love but I met lots of lovely people" — made some good friends — "Your service is so badly needed" — "You are doing God's work " LO-LA invites all eligible people who ore in- terested in joining us to call or write . P.O. Box 254 Lathrup Village MI 48076 356-0949