20 Friday, February 28, 1986 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS PURELY COMMENTARY Ethical Wills As Traditional Guidelines Continued from Page 2 It may be traversing in extremes to turn from a Holocaust sufferer to a humorist. Yet they relate. Sam Levenson also had faith and he willed it to his fam- ily. Here is how he ethically bequeathed his idealism to his grandchildren and fam- ily: I leave you my unpaid debts. They are my greatest assets. Ev- erything I own — I owe: 1. To America I owe a debt for the opportunity it gave me to be free and to be me. 2. To my parents I owe America. They gave it to me and I leave it to you. Take good care of it. 3. To the biblical tradition I owe the belief that man does not live by bread alone, nor does he live alone at all. This is also the democratic tradition. Preserve it. 4. To .the six million of my people and to the thirty million other humans who died because of man's inhumanity to man, I owe a vow that it must never happen again. 5. I leave you not everything I never had, but everything I had in my lifetime: a good family, respect for learning, compassion for my fellowman, and some four-letter words for all occasions: words like "help," "give," "care," "feel," and "love." Love, my dear grandchildren, is easier to recommend than to de- fine. I can tell you only that like those who came before you, you will surely know when love ain't; you will also know when mercy ain't and brotherhood ain't. The millennium will come when all the "ain'ts" shall have become "ises" and all the "ises" shall be for all, even for those you don't like. Finally, I leave you the years I should like to have lived so that I might possibly see whether your generation will bring more love and peace to the world than ours did. I not only hope you will. I pray that you will. Grandpa Sam Levenson Appended to the Levenson ethical will in the volume presently under consid- eration is this personal note about its author: Sam Levenson was raised and educated in New York. He taught in New York City high schools for 15 years before making a suc- cessful career as a humorist. He became a beloved, nationally Sam Levenson known personality through his books and appearances on radio and television; he had his own program, the "Sam Levenson Show," on Columbia Broadcasting System television. The major focus of his humor was the family — raising children and growing up in an urban environment. Some of his writings appear in textbooks on urban sociology. It has been said of his humor that it was of a special kind: it sought laughter at nobody's expense. This personal annotation needs em- phasis as a reminder that Sam Levenson was an example for dignity, a humorist who never sank to the low levels for which some of his contemporaries became famous. He was an entertainer who was always highleveled and will always be remembered for it. Many notables are represented in the impressive new collection of ethical wills: Sholem Aleichem, Chaim Greenberg, Theodor Herzl, Baron Edmond Rothschild and a number of religious scholars and Chasidic luminaries. For a total appreciation of the value of the Tzavaot, of the ethical wills in Jewish tradition, it is especially instructive to learn from Dr. Philip Birnbaum's Book of Jewish Concepts. There is always much to learn from Rabbi Birnbaum and his schol- arly definitions. Here is his Tzavaot defi- nition. Last wills disposing of prop- erty used to be uncommon among the Jewish people, because inheri- tance was for the most part regu- lated by the traditional law, pro- viding a double share for the firstborn son and equal shares for all the other sons. On the other hand, Jewish literature has been greatly enriched iss, a considera- ble variety of ethical wills that convey a genuine picture of life and ideals of the times in which they were written. Long after their death, great Jews began to pre- pare their instructions to their de- scendants, revising them from time to time, until their composi- tions finally emerged as finished ethical dissertations. One of the earliest ethical wills is to be found in the book of Tobit, the earliest of all the books of the Apocrypha, which introduces the reader to the kind of home wherein the Jew lived more than two thousand years ago. Here are enshrined the high ideals of the Jewish people as to the purity of family life and the duty of kind- ness to the poor. Several quota- tions from Tobit are: "My son, do not neglect, your mother; provide for her as long as you live; try to please her; do not be a cause of grief to her. Re- member that she faced many dan- gers for your sake. You will suc- ceed in life if you are truthful. God will not ignore you if you do not ignore the poor. Do not do to any- one else that which is hateful to you." The Testaments of the Twelve Patriarchs, belonging to the apocalyptic literature of the Sec- ond Temple period, are repre- sented as the last instructions of the twelve sons of Jacob. Each in turn asks his descendants to emu- late his virtues and shun his vices. The following are a few excerpts from the instructions that are pro- fessedly addressed to the descen- dants of the sons of Jacob: "My children, pay no heed to the beauty of lewd women. Be- ware of deceit and envy. Work di- ligently and acquire wisdom. Lead a life of sincerity. Have pity on the poor and the weak. Be compas- sionate toward all persons and animals. Anger is blind and does not permit one to see the face of another as it really is. Do not be- come aggry when someone speaks against you; do not become vain when you are praised. Speak the truth to your neighbor, and love each other with a true heart. Hatred is evil; it makes small things appear great. Put envy out of your souls, and love one an- other with singleness of heart. Be patient with one another's faults and overlook them. A good man shows mercy to everyone, even to sinners. He is neither envious nor jealous of others, but rejoices al- ways in their good fortune ..." During the Middle Ages, as well as during the early talmudic period, the spiritual leaders of Is- rael left ethical wills in a similar vein that had a marked influence on the development of Jewish life and thought. Rabbi Judah ibn Tibbon of Twelfth-Century Spain writes: "My son, ability is of no avail without inclination. Exert yourself while still young. Take good care of your health; do not be your own destroyer. Honor your wife to your utmost capacity. If you give orders, let your words be gentle. All I ask of you is to behave in a friendly spirit toward all; to gain a good name; to revere God and per- form his commandments. "Devote yourself to your chil- dren; be not indifferent to any slight ailment in them or in your- self. Never refuse to lend books to anyone who can be trusted to re- turn them. Honor your teachers and attach yourself to your friends. My son, make your books your companions. Let your shelves be your treasure grounds and gardens ..." Such are the enrichments provided by tradition and pursued in modernity. Faith and the lessons demanded by a good con- science, scholarship and appreciation of historic lessons, are provided in the mes- sages passed on to the generations. These are lessons for learning and ethical codes to be passed on to the generations. Religio us News Serv ice others and wherein lies the secret of our existence on earth? Knowing this, will your heart still be heavy, my child? Will you still say you cannot stand your fate? But you must, my child, for so were you commanded; it is your calling. This is your mission, your purpose on earth. You must go to work alongside people of other nations ... and you will teach them that they must come to a brotherhood of nations and to a union of all na- tions with God. You may ask, "How does one speak to them?" This is how: "Thou shalt not murder; thou shalt not steal; thou shalt not covet; love thy neighbor as thyself ." Do these things and through their merit, my child, you will be victorious. Avital and Anatoly Shcharansky are shown in the kitchen of their temporary apartment in Jerusalem this month, before the couple went into seclusion.