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KADDISH SATURDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 1985, 9:30 P.M. THE DETROIT INSTITUTE OF ARTS Afterglow immediately following the film presentation. Donation: $20 per couple Tickets available at: Cafe Katon Lakewood Specialty Sperber's Karry-Out For Reservations call: 544-4592, 557-3810 presented by: The Bine' Akiva Fellowship in support of youth activities. Donations are tax deductible as allowed by law and should be made payable to Bnei Akiva Fellowship. WERE BOOKS • DIAMONDS *Way to Purchase Diamonds* From $ 259 installed EXPERTS IN: • Siding • Gutters • Security products co t?' Oats OPEN!! dry is done and the dishes are clean and they have a few mo- ments to think about their col- lege days and their college dreams and maybe wonder where they all went and what happened to their sorority sis- ters and that great looking guy they sat next to in Chemistry 201. They may be tempted, at such moments, to think about read- ing Rona Jaffe's "reunion" books. Or they may even be tempted to attend their next college reu- nion. But they should know that even Jaffe herself, the chronicler of Ivy League get-togethers, was "too scared" to attend any of her Radcliffe reunions. After pub- lishing 12 books and having at least one of them made into a film, after hobnobbing with such stars as Marilyn Monroe and Paul Newman and Shelly Win- ters in courses at the Actors' Studio in New York, after ap- pearing on every major talk show in the country, Rona Jaffe chickened out. Whenever you go to your reu- nion," she said, "you go back to the scene of the crime. They sent out a questionnaire that asked me to bring pictures of my children and husband to put Book Fair Schedule The 34th annual Jewish Book Fair will officially open at 8 p.m. Saturday at the main Jewish Community Center. Sportscaster-author Howard Cosell will be the opening night speaker. Following is a list of activities and speakers scheduled for the book fair, which runs through Nov. 17. 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But if Jaffe had gone to her class reunion, she probably would not have been the only one without a husband or with- out children. But the fear that she would stand out in the crowd that she first joined when she was a mere 15 years old kept her far from Cambridge. "We're all trained to put on a good show," she said, "Not just men have been forced to be macho and pretend that every- thing is all right. More than anyone will ever realize or admit — women have also been forced to put on a good front." Even Rona Jaffe, whose books mirror women's fears, give a voice to women's dreams, likes to put on a good show. She, too, enters into the conspiracy that everything is O.K. But at least her books tip us off that there is a lie being lived in much of America. ❑ 10 a.m. — Arlene Kushner 1 p.m. — Wolf Blitzer 2 p.m. — Young People's Theatre of Ann Arbor, "Shtetl Tales," for children, admission fee 3 p.m. — Rachel Eytan 4 p.m. — Rev. Douglas Huneke 5:30 p.m. — Rabbi Haskel Lookstein 8 p.m. — Chaim Potok MONDAY SISTERHOOD DAY 10 a.m. — Shoshana Kalisch Noon — Luncheon, admission fee, reservations required 1 p.m. — Rona Jaffe 8 p.m. — Beate Klarsfeld TUESDAY HADASSAH DAY 9 a.m. and 11 a.m. — Riki Levenson, creative writing workshop for children 10 a.m. — Joseph Amiel Noon — Luncheon, admission fee, reservations required 1 p.m. — Charles Silberman 7 p.m. — Comedian Alan King 8 p.m. — Rabbi Sherwin Wine WEDNESDAY 10 a.m. Jehuda Reinharz Noon — Luncheon, admission fee, reservations required 1 p.m. — Norman Garbo 8 p.m. — Francine Klagsbrun — THURSDAY 10 a.m. — Faye Moskowitz Noon — Luncheon, admission fee, reservations required 1 p.m. — Monique High 8 p.m. — Sol Linowitz NOV. 16 8 p.m. Mike Burstyn, English-Yiddish musical pre- sentation, admission fee — NOV. 17 10 a.m. Ian Shapolsky 11 a.m. — Deborah Lipstadt 1 p.m. — Aranka Siegal 2 p.m. — Young People's Theatre of Ann Arbor, "Shtetl Tales," for children, admission fee 2 p.m. — Sylvia Rothschild 3 p.m. — Irvin Zeitlin — Oral lip-reading and sign lan- guage total communication in- terpreters will be provided for the Cosell and Klarsfeld speeches. For details, call the Jewish Center, 661-1000, ext. 250; or adviser, Beverly Lois Eder Mitchell, 541-7218 (TDD/ voice). For reservations to the luncheons, call the Center. Transportation to and from the book fair will be available from the Jimmy Prentis Morris Branch of the Jewish Commu- nity Center on Monday, Wed- nesday and Thursday, beginning