r x THE DETROIT JEWISH HEWS Friday, Jane 18, 1982 39 Hopes, Anguish in a Country at War Again By ROBERT ST. JOHN eV a - DANCE and ENJOY THE SOUNDS OF ••••••••••••••••••••••••• • • • •, • • • • • • • • DESTINATION LOVE • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • JUNE 15-JULY 10 • • • • • • •• • • 41 • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • • COMING SOON H EAVE N N JULY 13-31 Finger Foods Available till 11 p.m. Nightly Specialty Drinks at a Special Price DAILY NO COVER CHARGE PROPER ATTIRE PLEASE 2 FOR I ATTITUDE ADJUSTMENT HOUR with Hors d'oeuvres Monday-Friday 4Pm-7PM LLL oaDaaaaoo •.•.......•...•.. Concert in Park 0000000_ • • O ■ 0 • 0 • =I • • a O 0000 • 0 M TEL AVIV — There is still shooting and aerial ac- tion going on in the north as this report is being written. However, there is great hope here that the ceasefire will hold, that Fatah Land and all of southern Lebanon have been rid of the vermin. The hope is that the all- out Mideast war that most of the world feared appar- ently has been avoided and the Seven-and-a-Half Day War (my own nickname for it) was not one-tenth as costly in Israel lives as the Six-Day War or the Yom Kippur War. Over the Sabbath there was ecstasy everywhere. Thousands of women whose men had been called up were rejoicing that now, surely, they would return, and with arms and legs in- tact. There was fun-as-usual on the beaches, and the Dizengoff cafes were so crowded they overflowed into the streets. Everywhere there seemed to be joie de vivre — the joy of just being alive. However, I've been ob- serving and reporting wars since I went to France in 1917, World War II, rev- olutions in the Balkans, civil wars in Latin America, and now five Arab-Israeli wars. Only here in Israel have I felt the anguish of war so keenly, even though Israel has always been the winner. Also, this week I made a discovery: anguish, like cer- tain poisons, is cumulative. Professional military men used to talk about the "value" of one war per gen- eration. But five wars in 34 years, that's too many. The anguish accumulates too fast. A boy of 17 who took part in the War of Independence in 1948 was still a youngs- ter of 25 when Israel joined France and Britain in the war of 1956. He was a rela- tively young man of 36 when the Six-Day War broke out: He was only 42 (still military material) when the Arabs attacked in 1973, and last week he was only 51 — still young enough to serve in some capacity. O I= • 0 • 'J0E10000000 171171711171= 711111 111-1= 71-11— The Warney Ruhl Or- chestra will perform in Oak Park's "Music In The Park" summer concert series 7:30 p.m. Tuesday at Oak Park's Shepherd Park. Admission is free. In case of bad weather the concert will be held at the Oak Park High School au- ditorium. Five wars in 34 years. Five wars in the adult life of a man now only 51. Many Israelis have served in three or four of those five wars. There is hardly a family that has not lost someone in one of those wars. The anguish multip- lies. It accumulates. It piles up. It grows geometrically. The papers day after day carry display ads extending condolences to mother, a wife, the mishpaha of some pilot, parachutist, tank driver or foot soldier. At the funerals you see the anguish. Then it goes back into hiding. Jewish anguish is more intense- than Christian an- guish or Moslem anguish, for a good theological rea- son. Christianity takes the sting out of death by em- phasizing the joyful eter- nity awaiting anyone who truly believed. Islam sends even hardened criminals to a glorious reward in heaven if they die in a jihad or holy war, which wars against Jews are declared to be. Judaism, contrawise, emphasizes the impor- tance of living, not dying, and so the anguish when a man is killed in battle is genuine. That's why, in a cafe, a restaurant or on a park bench, you'll see now and then a man or woman sit- ting staring into space. Some, if pressed, will talk and tell you what a fine young lad he was, just at the start of a brilliant career. Some are very bitter that it had to be. Last week, General Sha- ron told us that 700 young crippled, the missing in all Israelis had been killed or those other wars that most wounded. Not many? Add to Israelis can remember and that figure the 2,500 dead in you have the sum total of the war nine years ago at the anguish — the price Yom Kippur, and the dead, that was paid for the the hopelessly wounded, the ecstasy. presents THE MUSICAL a.. • tv,.av Tom Joon ••••e M HervestSchaidt Starring NANCY GURWIN Co-Starring JOE LANNEN • Friday Performances • 28225. 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