• 18 Friday, February 12, 1982 HAPPY - • THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS 50th ANNIVERSARY FANNIE & ZEIDEL 1101/IN We Love You Your Children & Grandchildren De Cuellar to Visit Israel UNITED NATIONS (JTA) — Prime Minister Menahem Begin has invited newly-elected Secretary General Javier Perez de Cuellar to visit Israel and the Secretary General ac- cepted in principle, a UN spokesman announced. According to the spokes- man, Begin conveyed the invitation during his meet- ing last week in Jerusalem with UN Under-Secretary General Brian Urquhart. The spokesman said that •••••••••••••• ∎ •••••••••••••••••••• • : • DRAPERIES • BEDSPREADS • BLANKETS (Cleaned or Laundered) • • • WINDOW SHADES LAMPSHADES PILLOWS VENETIAN BLINDS (Cleaned, retaped & re-corded) • • If you're moving we can remake and re-install • your draperies or 0 O • existing • • to fit another window • • room. gi l S 1/4 • • • We Remove & Install • • 891-1818 MEIN. VISA' • • DRAPERY CLEANERS • Suburban Call Collect • • - nAll that the name implies." VISA & MASTERCHAROE t•:*•••••••••• • • • • ••••••••••••••••• • • • • • • • • Boris Smolar's the date for the trip would be discussed with the Israeli UN Mission in New York and it was understood that a final date for the vis'it would be decided when Ambas- sador Yehuda Blum returns to the UN from his current 10-day visit to Israel. Blum left for consulta- tions in Israel in the wake of the harsh anti-Israel reso- lution adopted last Friday by the General Assembly calling for the isolation of the Jewish state for its an- nexation of the Golan Heights. According to the UN spokesman, De Cuellar vis- ited Israel in the past. His predecessor, Secretary General Kurt Waldheim, visited Israel while in office. • Chicano-Jewish • Talks in Denver • • • • • • • • • • •• DENVER — The Ameri- can Jewish Committee's Denver chapter has con- cluded a year-long series of dialogues with Chicano leaders from the Denver metropolitan area, result- ing in "a marked increase in mutual understanding and goodwill between the Jewish and Chicano groups." ena of 6cmon CLEMANCE. Entirc stock of 6caona Suits Sportcoats Topcoats 1/2 off Alterations at cost s•V Orchard Mall- • Orchard Lake Rd at Maple Rd 851- 9444 Mon . Tues . Wed . Sat 10 a in b p m Thur...Fri 10 am Sun. 12-5 9pm `Between You . . . and Me' Editor-in-Chief Emeritus, JTA (Copyright 1982, JTA, Inc.) • THE "JEWISH FAMILY WEEK": A number of cities-are conducting a "Jewish Family Week" this month as part of their cultural program to strengthen Jewish family life, which is now in a state of erosion. This follows the setting up by the American Jewish Committee of a special task force to examine the various factors that affect the Jewish family; also to identify the major changes that have occurred in American families in recent years,}?' -' lighting those which are most characteristic of Je families. The erosion in Jewish family life is coming more and more to the surface in practically all Jewish communities throughout the country. It is no longer the Jewish college youths who become estranged from the parents; it is the growing chaos in adult family life that is causing grave concern; the decrease in Jewish marriages; the increase in divorces; the growing number of "one-parent families," with children not seeing their parents together; the ten- dency of young women to become "career women" rather than to marry and raise a family; the tendency of young men not to marry, or to wait till a later age; the splitting up of families by geographic mobility for the sake of a better job or better opportunities; the rise in the number of young men and women who live together unmarried. In introducing a "Jewish Family Week," local Jewish leaders aim to reach all elements in their community — young and middle-aged, men and women, "singles" and marrieds. Their program includes -lectures, discussions, workshops, entertainment, art exhibitions and other means of educating local Jews to the importance of a solid Jewish family life for the well being of American Jewry and its continuity. THE MISSING CENSUS DATA: There is no na- tional data on Jewish families comparable to overall statis- tics of the characterization of the U.S. households and families. However, it would be a mistake to think that the erosion in Jewish family life is a purely Jewish problem. It is a national malaise. Significant changes are taking place in families of many million Americans as well. The absence of data on the characteristics of the Jewish family is due to the fact that Jews are not classified as Jews in the government census of the population. Jews are the only ethnic group among close to 60 national minorities in the country who are not listed in the census according to ethnic origin. The Census Bureau would like to identify Jews by ethnicity, but is under pressure from leading Jewish organizations not to do it. American Jewry — the largest Jewish community in the world — is thus non- existent as far as the census is concerned. The approx- imately six million Jews in the United States are anonym- ous within the entire American population; they are Americans but not Jews. From census data a clear picture emerges showing that birthrate is declining among the entire population in the country; there are today two-thirds more "singles" among women between 25 and -29 years of age as compared with 1970, and they can be found mostly among the educated; the number of divorces has doubled during the last decade, especially among couples under 30 years of age; 22 percent of all families in the country are "one-parent families"; there are more than 1,000,000 households where unmar- ried young men and women — primarily under 35 years of age — live together. THE INTERMARRIAGE TRENDS: Related to the trends affecting the Jewish family is the rise of intermar- riage among young third-generation Jews. No strategy for reducing this trend has so far been developed. At a session of the task force of the American Jewish Committee, Dr. Sheila Kamerman, a Columbia University professor of social work, touched upon the special concern which the increase in intermarriages provokes. At the same time she stated that there is an apparent rise in conversion rates of non-Jewish spouses and in Jewish iden- tification of many of their children. Her suggestion that the conversion rate to Judaism is higher than most would anticipate was, however, disputed by another professor, Dr. Chaim Waxman, chairman of the Sociology Department of the University College of Rutgers University. He said that to the best ,of his knowledge the conversion rate is about 20-25 percent and that the vast majority of non-Jewish spouses do not convert. As for the children of those who do not convert, he said that there is available evidence indicating a level of Jewish socializa- tion which ranges "from negligible to nil." He was also pessimistic about the evidence of some of those who do convert. Those things that are not practicable are not desira- ble. There is nothing in the world really beneficial that does not lie within the reach of an informed understand- ing and a well-protected pursuit. air- 2_ o f