r •0 *.;1,114 , 24 Friday, January 12, 1919 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS A Routine Night on Guard Duty in Jerusalem By STEVE SCHIFF JERUSALEM — For al- most a year, - since my wife and I made aliya to Israel from Detroit, I have been doing civilian guard duty in my Jerusalem neighbor- hood. Up until last night, the once a month shifts were SAVE! SAVE! ti BUY DIRECT • FRAM THE 111415ORTER SEYMOUR KAPLAN and Co. IMPORTER AND CUTTERS OF FINE DIAMONDS 30555 Southfield, Suite 100 4454200 •u ' re Invited mostly pleasant evenings out with a friend, a chance to exchange rumors about the housing shortage and to commiserate with each other over the 40 percent in- flation rate. The initial training ses- sion involved a half-an-hour lecture-demonstration on the use of the old American- carbines and the opportu- nity to fire 10 bullets at a practice range out in the hills near Bethlehem (10 out of 10 on the target, thank you). It was all very innocent (despite the use of a rifle for the first time in my life) and was generally more humorous than sol- emn for the new recruits. Of course, there was the evening last summer, dur- ing one of the periods when a spate of bombs had gone off and others had been -dis- covered in Jerusalem, which temporarily jolted me from this feeling of calm: We were walking past a bus while it was inching 20% Off •invitations -centerpieces • stationery Phyllis Billes 559 - 4343' HARVEY M. BLOOM Says: "WE DON'T MEET THE COMPETITION, WE ARE THE COMPETITION." -MAIN Be tween t 0 4, 39 (ei 5484600 SEE ME LAST & SAVE! 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What 'made an impres- sion on me was the fear of these people and, flat tire or not, I was initiated into the reality of living in an environment where ter- rorism was more than a news story from some far away place. But, since that evening, the monthly guard duties had taken on the more usual calm pace and good camaraderie that it had offered before. Then a few nights ago a very small incident oc- curred which I have been thinking about ever since,, and which has disturbed me, maybe more than the incident warrants. Nonetheless, I have thought about it and have tried to decide whether I have any right to generalize from it or make conclusions about my own reaction and psychol- ogy, let alone the psychol- ogy and effect on this society as a whole. I'm not sure I have that right or that I'm correct in my analysis, but I'm not totally convinced I haven't seen some kernel of truth either: We were walking in one of the partially constructed apartment buildings that dot our particular neighborhood when we spotted an Arab in kafieh carrying a bundle in each hand. (In the 11 months I had been doing guard duty this was the first time I had ever had to ask an Arab, or anyone for that matter, to show his identity papers.) Curiously enough, in the seconds.that elapsed during which I asked the man to stop and in which he duti- fully obeyed, I flashed back to the only other time that I had wielded any officially sanctioned authority, my days as crossing monitor in elementary school. The 'analogy would be humorous if it weren't for the fact that for the first few seconds I rather enjoyed the feeling that I had the power to stop someone and the satis- faction that that person so obediently listened to me. I was disappointed at my reaction, but I was aware of it. I know that guard duty in Israel is a valuable public service and needed in the light of the reality of ter- rorist attack. But, I'm not so sure I don't hurt (as well as help) innocent people in the course of that duty. I'm not sure that in spite of my own politeness and the Arab's equally polite demeanor, I didn't degrade him and, in the process, myself. I felt dirty and abusive as I shined the flashlight in his face to verify that he was the same Arab from Hebron that his identity papers stated he was. In my very small role I truly felt like the representative of a con- quering nation and bur- dened with all the conflict- ing emotions that go along with that position. - I'm not trying to make any point about the right of Israel to guard against ter- rorism or the necessity of taking measures which would be considered ex- treme in a more normal situation. But, I do hope that the sensibilities which made me feel ashamed at playing the role of "con- queror" might somehow be incorporated into the decision-making process of the nation. To what extent it can compete with the very real issues of security and defense, I'm not sure. But, at the point when Is- raelis feel no confusion about their role, then for me, the real danger to Is- rael will have begun. The alternative of being a conqueror is certainly not to revert to being the con- *- quered. How we balance the requirements of security with the moral issues of political and personal be- havior will determine, in great measure, the future of this country. A hostile Arab world will have achieved a great vic- tory if it is able to separate Israel from the long, moral tradition of the Jewish people. To continue that tradition, in the face of the constant military threat, is as great a challenge as any other this nation faces. Married Students Studying Together at Yeshiva School NEW YORK — Six mar- ried couples are among • Yeshiva University's Ber- nard Revel Graduate School's students (19 per- cent of whom are women) and all are effusively enthusiastic about the benefits they feel joint study can bring to Jewish family life. . "We have to face a reality," says Rabbi Barry Freundel, assistant rabbi of the Great Neck Synagogue, who is working towards a master's degree in Bible while his wife works towards her master's degree in Hebrew literature. "The return to Jewish roots is a very real phenom- enon and inmany cases it is impeded by a belief that women will not grow intel- lectually if they choose an Orthodox life-style. This kind of family study is the best way away from that limited view. It's the wave of the future. NOW husbands and wives can stay in better touch, instead of having the woman lag progressively behind as the years go on," he said. AJCongress Tells Support for Late Dr. King's Goals NEW YORK — On the eve of what would have been the 50th birthday of Martin Luther King, Jr. on Jan. 15, the American Jewish Con- gress issued a call for re- dedication to the goals of so- cial and economic justice embraced' by the fallen leader. "It would be a fitting trib- ute to the life .and work of a great American," said Howard M. Squadron, president of the AJCon- gress, "if we could achieve in 1979 the goals that_ Dr. King expressed so eloquently and fought for so courageously — full em- ployment, decent housing, good schools and true equal opportunity for black Americans. "That is'why we endorsed and worked for the Humphrey-Hawkins Full Employment Bill and are most gratified by its pas- sage. "We believe there is no reason why the American people must accept the cruel paradox of a society in which there are mil- lions idle who are able to work while schools, housing, health facilities and other vital institu- tions need to be built and staffed, while necessary antipollution installa- tions exist only as bluep- rints and while mass transportation steadily deteriorates. "The time has come to put the unemployed to work at building the many pub assets that our society li been denying itself." Squadron noted that American Jews and Israelis both honor the memory of Martin Luther King, Jr. On a hill in biblical Galilee, near Nazareth, a forest has been dedicated to Dr. King's memory. Planted by the Jewish National Fund, the forst is sponsored by the black and Jewish members of the United States Con- gress. UN Ambassador An- drew Young is also a spon- sor. Rebbe Calls for Awareness of the Sanctity of Marriage NEW YORK — The Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi , Menachem M. Schneerson, has called for renewed awareness ofthe sanctity of marriage and the holiness of Jewish family life. Speaking on the evening of his 50th wedding an- niversary, the Rebbe said that "marriage and Jewish family life are sacred, pure and holy. It is little wonder that the constant talmudic and halakhic reference to marriage is with the word tkidushin,' which means consecrated and holy." The laws of `Taharat Hamishpaha' - the sanctity of Jewish marital life - are prescribed in the Torah and explained at considerable length in the Talmud and Shulkhan Arukh — the Code 'of Jewish Law. "Jewish families have scrupulously observed Taharat. Hamishpaha through the millenia. Though not often spoken of in public, observance of Taharat Hamishpaha is the most important ingre- dient and cherished aspect in the foundation of the Jewish, home," the Rebbe said. The laws of Taharat Hamishpaha, among other things, prohibit any physi- cal contact between hus- band and wife during cer- tain periods of the monthly cycle for at least 12 consecu- tive days, which may be re- sumed only after immersion in a mikva. "The abstinence does not impair the relationship but factually enhances it. And its strict observance is also very important for the phys- ical and spiritual well-being of the offspring. The laws of Taharat Hamishpaha are many, and its meticulous observance brings a magni- ficent new dimension to the wholesomeness and quality of life in the Jewish home," the Rebbe said. The Rebbe said that though it takes the dedica- tion of both husband and wife to observe Taharat Hamishpaha, it is primar- ily the role of the woman to see that it is carefully kept in all its details. Returns for Trial JERUSALEM -- Morris Glickman, an Australian attorney charged with theft and fraud amounting to $875,000 was extradited to Australia at the end of De- cember. Australian authorities accompanied their extradi- tion request with 2,000 pages of documents. Benefits Asked for Homemakers WASHINGTON — The American Jewish Congress says that the nation's rising divorce ate makes it "im- perative"10 give homemak- ers Social Security credit for their household work. Testifyin g at a public hearing of the Advisory Council on Social 'Security of the Department o Health, Education and We fare, Dr. Martin Hochbaum, director of the American Jewish Congress Commis- sion on Urban Affairs, said, "Women who are divorced after less than 10 years of marriage receive. no Social Security protection as de- pendents. ."Even if a woman is mar- ried for more than 10 years and even if she goes to work after her children are grown, her old-age benefits will be less than half of what her husband receives be- cause of the years she was not covered by Social Secu- rity."