• Nostalgia Fills Recollection of the Delray Jewish Community Back when 12th Street and Dexter were the hub of the Jewish community, in the 1930s to early '40s, another world of Jews was thriving several miles away, in Del- ray. It was the small and ulique Hungarian Jewish community. Centered around the First Hebrew Congregation of Del- ray, it was hardly known to the larger community, but it instilled a fierce pride in its own members. The memory of that com- munity is being perpetuated by its "alumni," several of whom have formed' a com- mittee to organize a reunion in late spring or summer. Shirley Gormezano, w h o once lived in the Delray com- munity, recalled a life that was sweet, not because it was easy but because it was filled with the things that money could not buy: a love of Jewishness, good friends, good fun and the incompar- able gypsy music. Its citizens, many of them refugees, were hard-working. Many were impoverished. But, Mrs. Gormezano said, they had a will and a drive to succeed. Today, the prod- ucts of the Delray Jewish community count among De- troit's best known profes- sional and business leaders. Here is how Mrs. Gorme- zano described "a Hungarian Jewish community which was like a little world unto it- self". By SHIRLEY GORMEZANO Life was chiefly centered around the First Hebrew Congregation of D e 1 r a y, which was located on Bur- deno St., one block north of W. Jefferson. It was founded in 1915 above a bank on W. Jefferson and later moved to the Burdeno address. The first structure was frame, and in 1925 a brick building was constructed and named the First Hungarian Hebrew Congregation of Del- ray. It was later changed to First Hebrew Congregation of Delray when some fam- ilies, other than Hungarians, began moving into the then- thriving business area which ran up and down West Jef- ferson from Dearborn Ave. to Junction. The one and only kosher meat market and grocery store combination was owned and operated by the Lax brothers, Kalman, the butcher and Sigmond, the grocer. The largest produce market was owned by the Wolovitz family. Some of the other mer- chants included the Golden Valley Dairy Co. owned by Harry Greenstein and Dave Kreisman; Hungarian Village Supper Club, owned by the Duschinsky family;* Henig's Dry Goods; Fox Furniture and Kollenberg Furniture Co.; Sam Klein's Shoe Store; Liebowitz's Shoes; Lachman's Jewelry Store; Zwieback's Ladies Apparel; Citron and Solomon's live poultry; Mor- off's and Rabin's paint stores and many others. On a Saturday evening you could walk up and down W. Jefferson and enjoy the happy sounds of gypsies singing, dancing and playing their vi- 42—Friday, March 29, 1974 olins in the streets, all in native costume. Shoppers would be bustling from store to store, catching Saturday night bargains, while huge limousines would pull up in front of Hungarian Village with elegantly dressed men and women ar- riving for an evening of Hungarian cuisine and Hungarian gypsy music and entertainment. (The young kids, like my- self, would hide in the sha- dows and watch all- this glamour in complete disbe- lief. We would stand behind the Hungarian Village to lis- ten for hours to the haunt- ingly beautiful gypsy or- chestra. Saturday night was always greatly anticipated.) All this took place during the 1930s to early '40s. The Hungarian Jews lived together harmoniously-among their gentile neighbors in a mutually impoverished s o - ciety. Some of the people were economically comfort- able, while many others were quite poor. Same definitely deserved to be on welfare — no one was. They were much too proud. Some had threadbare homes, no electricity, no tele- phones or other luxuries like refrigerators or gas stoves. Everyone was happy, though, and content in the closeness of community life, which all centered around the Delray shul. The hub of the whole com- munity was the congregation, and Rabbi and Mrs. Harry Greenfield and his family, Larry, Sylvia and later Bev- erly. (They now live in Is- rael.) There never was and never will be such a lovable, devoted and dedicated rabbi and rebbetzin. They were way ahead of their time. When they first arrived in Delray from Hungary, it was somewhere in the mid-30s. Rabbi Greenfield was a bril- liant and fun-loving person who drew together all the Downriver communities of River Rouge, Ecorse, Wyan- dotte, Trenton, Lincoln Park and W. Fort Street. The people would gather at the Delray shul for recreational activities and special occa- sions. Rabbi Greenfield, an Or- thodox rabbi, encouraged many extracurricular activi- ties which the community would never have otherwise experienced, such as a girl scout troop, which was led by Evelyn Rose and Annette Mittleman; Del-Rouge AZA Chapter 317; and a very ac- tive sisterhood headed by Mrs. Fanny Kohn, who did everything including cooking for all the simhas, making costumes whenever needed and collecting heder money from house to house to pay the rabbi. Rabbi Greenfield was the heder teacher for all age groups and all classes, with his wife, Tekla, as his as- sistant. Most of the residents were not observant Jews, al- though the synagogue was strictly Orthodox. The rabbi and rebbetzin instilled Juda- ism into children who never would have otherwise been exposed to it. All the boys were bar- mitzvaed, and whatever a student learned, for some reason (the rod was waved forebodingly, but never used) he retained. Many of his former stu- dents are affiliated with syn- agogues in the Jewish com- munities today, and there are many who are quite active in Jewish communal life. Some former Delray resi- dents are Norman Feder, ex- mayor of Southfield, Rabbi Ernest Greenfield (of Green- field Noodle Products), Dr. Eugene Steinberger, Dr. Rob- ert Baruch, Dr. Charles West (Carl Weinfeld), Bernard Jonas, Walter Jonas, Betty (Duschinsky) Berg, Shirley (Greenstein) Gormezano, Jeanette (Greenstein) Green, Pearl (Rose) Goutman, Edith Rose, Muriel and George Tarnoff, George (Duschin- sky) Duchin, Dolly (Moss) Weinstein, Irene (DeSure) Astrein, Fred Lax, Aaron (Wolovitz) Wallis, Irving Auslander and Clara (Weis- enberg) Tamaroff. Violet (Weinfeld) Lake is the wife of the owner of Nippersink resort. One interesting aspect is that the rabbi was also the shohet. The Greenfield fam- ily had an apartment directly in back of and adjoining the main sanctuary. Its doors were always open and often a haven to many. In the front of the synagogue was the main entrance and a small classroom. There was a downstairs social hall and an upstairs sanctuary for the women. A small ritual slaughter house for chickens was in the backyard. It was a common practice on Wednesday and Thursday evenings for resi- dents of the community to seek out the shohet to slaugh- ter their chickens for the Sabbath. More often than not, they'd find him in the process of teaching his Hebrew classes. The 'rabbi would either leave us on our honor when he went off to perform his service, or he would call upon his wife to take over for him if she wasn't too busy with her family. We learned how to read and write Hebrew and Yiddish, H u m a s h and all about JeWish laws, customs and holidays. On Friday evening at 8:30, after Sabbath services and dinner, the community would gather at the synagogue for a Friday evening forum on some current topic of inter- est. The speaker was usually Rabbi Greenfield, who was a gifted and eloquent speaker, with a tremendous sense of humor. He was always very knowledgeable and well versed on all current affairs. The sisterhood would serve tea and cakes following the forum, and this was a weekly event greatly enjoyed by young and old alike. Sunday mornings there was a Sunday school with quali- fied teachers who were hired to teach Jewish history. The rabbi saw to it that the children were always taken on outings, with the assist- ance of a very benevolent woman who always acted as our chauffeur, M r s . Mae Sobel. Mrs. Sobel chaperoned us on trips to the lake, pic- THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS nics, the circus, etc. There were many in the community who had no autos, and many children in the neighborhood (myself among them) would never have had the benefit of any kind of exposure to the world outside if it weren't for the rabbi's efforts. The heads of families were too busy with business and too burdened with mak- ing a living to take time out for such trivialities. The rabbi was also the sports director, being an avid baseball fan. He also was the director, producer, chore- ographer, costume designer and set • director for Hanuka and Purim plays. It was so much fun rehearsing these plays which were absolutely fabulous and took many weeks of hard work. The entire community turned out to enjoy the var- ied talents of their children. Many hours of toil, worry and love went into these en- deavors. He also assisted the girl scout leaders with putting to- gether plays throughout the year. The rabbi was a tall, dark and exteremely hand- some man with a dynamic and fun-loving personality, and coming to the synagogue was something we all antici- pated and loved. He encour- aged mother's and daughter's banquets each year around Mother's Day, with local en. tertainment again under his auspices. (I, Shirley Greenstein, was t h e official "singer-enter- tainer" in the synagogue and had the lead in all the plays and was also .the rabbi's pro- tege. He would teach me beautiful Yiddish songs such as "My Yiddishe Momme" and take me along with him to entertain at synagogues in the 12th Street, Linwood and Dexter areas). (To me, a young teen-ager, this was like going into an- other world, so remote from the one I was accustomed to.) The "Jewish neighborhood" as all the Delray kids re- ferred to it, seemed a mil- lion miles away from ours, completely unobtainable — out of our social class and reach. "Simhas" were especially happy communal occasions. When a boy became bar- mitzvaed, it was followed by a delicious luncheon down- stairs in the social hall. The sisterhood would prepare the meal, and the whole congre- gation was invited. No for- mal invitations were sent; everybody automatically came. The children were espe- cially ,exicted and could hardly wait for services to end so we could taste the delicious homemade Hungar- ian food. The tables were all invitingly set with hallas, giant-sized portions of ge- filte fish and horseradish. This usually would be fol- lowed by cholent and famous Hungarian pastries and tea. Weddings were the same — everyone was invited, and everyone came. The food was all homemade, and everyone was happy. Holidays were especially exciting. One of our tradi- tions on Yom Kippur was for the young children to pur- chase corsages at the local florist before sundown erev Yom Kippur. The next day they would be delivered to the synagogue, and the chil- dren would present them to their mothers. It was with such love and anticipation that we enjoyed this custom. It was for the ultimate reward of having the mothers feign complete shock and surprise when pre- sented with such beautiful gifts. On Sukkot, all the children would gather around the synagogue for services and to play all sorts of games around and in the sukkot. They were mostly played with walnuts and were very competitive. Another very beautiful and nostalgic memory of Delray was May Day. On May 1, to celebrate the arrival of spring, at the crack of dawn Hungarian gypsies would serenade us under our bed- room windows with haunt- ingly beautiful gypsy melo- dies. The-custom was to throw them some coins, but only after we had had our fill of those incomparable songs. On Palm Sunday, gentile children would go from door to door to sprinkle cologne (they referred to it as holy water) on us, also for a few coins. Although my family was observant and this was a Christian custom, my mother would always allow this so as not to offend or insult the children. She would usually drag my sister and myself out of hiding, under protest from us, so that they could perform their "mitzva." The community started to disband during the early to mid-40s. The war brought new prosperity to many, and they were able to assimilate them- selves in the regular Jewish community. The roots were so deep for some, myself in- cluded, that we traveled on three buses and streetcars daily, one way, for two year to continue our schooling Southwestern High on 1, Fort Street. * A date is being selected for t h e Delray-Downriver r e - union, including a dinner- dance and Hungarian gypsy orchestra. All generations of former residents are invited to submit their names and addresses and those of others to: Irene (DeSure) Astrein, 398-5690; Betty (Duschinsky) Berg, 557-5916; Shirley (Greenstein) Gormezano, 547- 5768; or Clara (Weisenberg) Tamaroff, 541-6756. s' FACIAL HAIR PERMANENTLY REMOVED Eyebrows— Neckline— Arms— Legs Recommended by Physicians FREE CONSULTATION PIANO Entertainment SHIRLEY PERSIN Registered Electrologist ADVANCE BUILDING Portable Organ Available 23077 GREENFIELD r itooM 260. 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