46—Friday, Det. 14, 1973

THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS

Advise Me . • •

Taxes and Your Future

Editor's Note: Guidance on
important problems provided
by the Jewish Welfare Fed-
eration — United Jewish
Charities Endowment Fund
Tax Advisory Committee,
will be offered periodically.
Professional advice about is-
sues discussed in these col-
umns should be secured from
an attorney or an estate plan-
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Q. I am a small business-
man. What began as a one-
man operation today has 25
employes. We do pretty well,
and fortunately my son likes
the business. How can I give
my son the business and
minimize the tax effect on
my estate?
A. Gift taxes are less than
estate taxes and since you
can decide WHEN to make
the gift, there will be less
disruption to your estate.
Besides, you will be around
to enjoy the advantages of
an outright gift rather than
a bequest.
There is one conception
about gifts of not-readily-
marketable stocks which you
should explore with your
CPA or attorney. The Inter-
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to establish a high valuation
to obtain more taxes. There-

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for it might be prudent on
your part to make a compar-
able gift of stock to a public
charity, such as Federation-
United Jewish Charities.
The Internal Revenue Serv-
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time with him only, etc. But
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Dear Mother and Father:
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obviously, at 9 months of age,
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express himself by biting or
scratching his baby brother.
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you about his anger and re-
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time, you might purchase
some toys like punching bags
or soft plastic objects, which
he can hit and bang. Better
to bang the toys than his
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