32—Friday, October 5, 1973 THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS Advise Me . . • • • • i activ ities in Society Detroit-born pianist Ruth Meckler Laredo has received the Winston Churchill Traveling Fellowship, a yearly grant sponsored by the English Speaking Union of the United States. The first musician to receive this honor, she will live in England and perform there for several months prior to her debut in London. Allan Zumberg of Parklawn Ave., Oak Park, was recently honored by family and friends at a surprise party at the Balmoral Apts. club house on the occasion of be- coming a certified public accountant. The party was given by his wife, Eileen. Dr. Martin Moss, an oral surgeon who practices in Huntington Woods, is the newly president of the Oakland County Dental Society. Dr. Moss is the president-elect of the Detroit Academy of Oral Surgery. The Jewish News has launched a new service for its readers, an advice column which will attempt to answer many of the personal questions that crop up in everyday life. To help answer questions that are submitted to The Jewish News, we have called upon trained social workers and guidance counselors from the Jewish Family and Chil- dren's Service. However, other resources will be called upon as problems arise in other areas. Identity of the ques- tioner will be kept confidential. Please address all queries to "Advise Me," care of The Jewish News, 17515 W. Nine Mile, Southfield, Mich. 48075. * For the past four months be aware of this is like my daughter has been baby- watching a murder being sitting with our neighbor's committed without aiding the three children. She tells me victim. Telling the boy's that one of the children al- family may very well raise ways has black and blue a hornet's nest in your own marks all over his body and and the boy's home, but you has had black eyes too. She must face the alternative of says that the older children what may happen to him if The testimonial dinner are fine and happy but the you do not help. honoring Rabbi Max Kapus- * little boy is frightened and tin's 25th year as director bruised every time she sees My mother is 80 years old, of Wayne State University's him. She is very upset and has a bad heart condition Bnai Brith Hillel Foundation, wants to report it to the and lives alone in a little will be held Oct. 28 at Cong. police. What should we do? bungalow. She takes beauti- Shaarey Zedek. —D. M. ful care of it, but her doctor A native of Germany, Dr. Dear D. M.: told her she shouldn't live Kapustin attended the uni- Go with your daughter to alone. I live in dread tat versities of Berlin and the police and tell them the something will happen to her Heidelberg, graduating with story. They will take it from and there will be no one to a Ph.D. magna cum laude there without implicating help her but she refuses my your girl. This child needs offer of help, won't leave her someone to look into the home, and won't hear of get- situation. ting someone to share it with Juvenile Diabetes Foundation Seeks Funds to Sponsor Illness Research Juvenile Diabetes Founda- tion, organized under the presidency of Henry Gutten- tag, has undertaken efforts to encourage research for cures of the prevailing illness. Marsha Gordon and Gloria August, who have been named co-chairmen of public relations for the movement here, announce a public meet- ing of the newly-formed group to be held 8 p.m., Mon- day, Oct. 15, at Troy Hilton Inn, Maple and Stephenson Hwy., Troy, for an evalua- tion of existing needs to deal with problems of diabetics. Dr. Kapustin's 25 Years of Service to Be Marked * • * I am in a dilemma. I know for a fact that one of my son's boyfriends, who is 17, is using heroin. I am fright- ened for the boy and I want to help. My problem is, should I call his parents and tell them? My husband says to mind my own business. —M. T. Dear M. T.: If it is a fact that the boy is on heroin it seems to us that your direction is clear- cut. Heroin can be a slow death and to stand back and Permanent Hair Removal FROM FACE, ARMS, LEGS, BODY FREE CONSULTATION Call 474-9827 or 357-0489 (Res.) LOTTIE D. HALPERIN REGISTERED ElEGTROLOGIST 33130 W. 12 MILE RD. Near Farmington Rd. her. What should I do? I worry about her all the time. —Worried Daughter Dear Worried: I can understand your con- cern, but your mother has lived independently all her life and she has the right to live the end of it as she wants. Too many old people are treated like infants and have their dignity and self- respect taken away. Keep in close touch with her and give her whatever help she will accept. However, if you con- tinue to feel upset and ner- vous. talk to a social worker at the Jewish Family and Children's Service. They have had a lot of experience dealing with the aged and their children and have specific services they can offer. RABBI MAX KAPUSTIN in Semitic languages, philos- ophy and history. He was ordained in 1937 from the rabbinical seminary of Ber- lin. After serving as instruc- tor in Bible, Talmud and Jewish history at Hoffmann Yeshiva of Frankfurt, he im- migrated to the United States in 1937. Dr. Kapustin came to Plough deep while slug- gards sleep —B en j a m in Wayne in 1948 after serving as rabbi for the city of Dan- Franklin. ville, Va., for 10 years. Rabbi Kapustin is adjunct professor of Near Eastern languages and literature at WSU and visiting professor of Midrasha — College of Jewish Studies. Stationery 44144&410PilliAlAi He is vice president of the United Religious Zionists of The Most Unusual in • Invitations • Thank-you notes Unique Boutique kerns • Stationery BARBARA'S STATIONERY 725 S. Adams Road Next to South Adams Square Arcade Phone 642-3860 in Birmingham, Michigan rfie PROFESSIONAL at Soutbdowps Robert Dueease USPTA/USLTA invites you to visit our beautiful 8 court indoor air conditioned Tennis Club Activities This Fall Includes Afternoon and Evening TENNIS CLINICS 6 Week Sessions Mon., Tues.. Thurs. to i instructor Ratio 1,, t urther lOormatian ( all 4,77 -2300 Watergate Issue to Be Focus of Criterion Lecture The origin and antecedents of Watergate will be dis- cussed 8:30 p.m. Tuesday at the Oak Park Community Center by Prof. Samuel M. Levin, professor emeritus at Wayne State University. Principal speaker at Cri- terion Club's "open house," Prof. Levin will give his analysis of "What's Happen- ed to Government Since the First World War?" The public will be welcome at no charge. Criterion Club's "Holiday Ball" Saturday evening at the Oak Park Community Center will feature Joe Miller and orchestra. a floor adults, as well as those ju- venile diabetics themselves who hope to help bring us closer to a cure. This being a volunteer program, 90 per cent of all monies raised will go toward research, the other 10 per cent for operating costs." When trouble comes into the world, Israel feels it first; when good comes, Israel feels it first. —Ekah Rabba Caricatures Dr. George Cahill, director of daibetic research, Joslin Clinic, Boston, will be guest speaker. The chairman will be J. P. McCarthy of radio station WJR. Detroit, past president of the Rabbinical Council of Amer- ica's Detroit section and president of' the Rabbinical Commission of Metropolitan Detroit, as well as a mem- ber of the internal relations committee of the Jewish Community Council and the committee on international concerns. for your party By SAM FIELD The meeting, admission be- ing free, is open to the public. "The Michigan chapter of the Juvenile Diabetic Foun- dation, formed last May, aims to secure funds for re- search," Guttentag said. "It is a volunteer organization comprised of local parents of diabetic children and young The author of "Mishna Treatise Shebi'it" and vari- ous articles in rabbinic and Semitic studies, he was awarded a faculty research grant on the Holocaust in 1970, and West Germany in- vited him this year on a study trip. He is a past president of Danville Lodge of Bnai Brith and for several decades has been a member of Keidan Lodge. Nathan D. Rubenstein, gen- eral chairman of the golden anniversary d i n n e r, an- nounced that Dr. Alfred Jospe, international director of Hillel, will be principal speaker. For tickets, call • Bnai Brith, 354-6100. Call 399-1320 Once Again Available J4e ifiartire- 2)avici O rc-4eJtra The Modern Sound of Distinction Orchestras & Cocktail Combos of all sizes for all occasions —Including HOUSE PARTIES! Featuring Solo Piano for cocktail hours. 546-7558 MARTIN KOSINS Abe Cherow, Says: • • • BEAUTY DOES NOT HAVE • TO BE SKIN DEEP. Dr. Herbert Raskin Leads National Parley • on Alcoholism in D.C. • • ***** • • • • • • • • • • • • • --Witt • 7 • • • • • • • • • a • • • • • • ARTISTIC UPHOLSTERERS PUTS QUALITY INSIDE AS WELL AS OUT. 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