1 American or Jew: the View of an Experimenting Oleh in Israel By MICHAEL SEALING JERUSALEM—In Detroit, where I grew up, I was usually Michael, sometimes Mike, and once in a while, ''The Jew." It depended largely on my surroundings, whether or not the latter term was used to define my being. In my youth I was sheltered by the walls of the self-made Jewish ghetto. I knew few Gentiles, and except for the cleaning woman and a few teachers at school, my first 13 years were practically in an all Jewish environ. I even be- lieved that Abraham Lincoln, Harvey Kuenn and Santa Claus were benevolent leaders of my faith. After my Bar Mitzva, I had the unique experience of spending every Saturday at my father's store, a lumber and hardware business in a small town where not one Jew resided. It was there that I first learned my Jewish world was false It became sud- denly apparent that the world was Gentile, and that I had just be- gun to realize what it was all about. For many in this small town, my father and his partner were the first Jews they had ever seen. Blatant anti-Semitism was rare. However, derogatory comments were often made. They usually- came in the form of a joke, but every once in a while, angry out- bursts were witnessed. The second phase of awakening took place when I entered the university campus. I was accept. ed at Michigan State University at age 17. There I was to begin a search for my identity, far from the roots of the Jewish ghetto. Since I was required to live in a dormitory. the university asked if I had any special preferences to aid them in picking a roommate for me. I requested that he be Jewish. I was placed on a 90-man floor in a huge dormitory. Out of the 90 young men, two were Jewish; myself and my roommate. The year proved to be quite an enlightening one Most of the 90 were similar that they came from sheltered homes where they were only ex- posed to people similar to them- selves. The 90 included: Catholics, Protestants of all denominations, Blacks, Orientals, farmers, Euro- peans and the two Jewish room- mates. For many of us a great oppor- tunity arose to throw off our so- ciety instilled prejudices. For others, the opportunity merely pre- sented the chance to exercise those prejudices. To the latter group. I was often referred to as 'The Jew" or the "The Liebe." Although this disturbed me, the positive aspects of learning through intense interaction far outweighed the negative encounters The next phase of my Jewish consciousness was realized as a poverty lawyer in a low-income, j all-white suburban area. People j would often come into my office and instead of using the phrase, was taken." or "I was screwed," j they would use the age-old idiom. was Jewed." At least once a week I heard that phrase. Most of the time, my clients would de- - AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY 32_Frid THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS ay, August 18, 1972 Editor's Note: Michael Serling, a recent Detroit College of Law "One must also pass the Israeli Israel where he has been admitted to bar exam. It can be taken in Eng- the Israel Bar. He was confronted with the difficulties that inevitably lish and is quite easy, compared mar the early years of a new settler's life there and has described to American state bar exams. In his experiences in a special article written for The Jewish News; and fact, the American lawyer is ex- in advice to lawyers who hope to settle in Israel he has written a empt from taking nearly one-third story for "The Summons," the periodical published by his fraternity, of the exams by virtue of an Amer- Tau Epsilon Rho. ican law degree. Serling is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Seymour Serling, 22855 "One section is in Hebrew and It was reported late Wednesday Providence, Southfield. tests the immigrant's proficiency. that the explosion of a bomb hid- His wife, the former Elaine Stone, who has given service as a In order to begin the apprentice- den in a record player injured nurse while in Israel with her husband, is the daughter of Mr. and ship one must pass the language three aboard an El Al 747 bound Mrs. Philip Stone of Detroit. proficiency section but may take Bomb Goes Off on El Al Jet; 3 Reported Hurt graduate, is temporarily in scribe or refer to the people they were complaining about by name. On a few occasions, when the par- ticular wrong-doer happened to be a Jew, some clients would throw off the formality of names and simply refer to the alleged wrong- doer as "The Jew." • • Since I do not have a Jewish name, people were more at ease to expose their hidden prejudices. These prejudices were not con- fined only to the lower income bracket clients. On one occasion, an opposing attorney, unaware of my ethnic background, referred to a former governor of our state as a "sellout to Jewish interests." When I left the United States on July 4, 1971, I felt that I had a pretty good understanding of the Jews' position in America. I didn't then, and still do not believe to- day, that at this point in history, America is a dangerous place to live for Jews. America is a Gen- tile world. Jews, although they can and do band together in their Jew- ish worlds, must not kid them- selves about this fact. They must also not assume that the Gentile world around them considers them to be full-fledged American broth- ers. LoOking back, I recall that there were many times in my life when I felt that I just wanted to be an American. I wanted others to see me as being an American. No matter how hard I tried, people always let me know that I was a Jew. I left America knowing the full impact of Jewish con- sciousness." The irony has just begun. I am now in the Jewish State, but no longer feel Jewish consciousness. Here I am experiencing American consciousness. In America I was "The Jew" and here I am the "American." In America, Jews band together in "colonies" set off from the majority. In Israel, American colonies exist in many kibutzim and in the larger cities. In America, Jews carry the stereo. type of being rich and shrewd. In Israel, Americans carry the stereo- type of being rich and soft. . • In America I once tried to for- get that I was a Jew in the hopes of becoming an American. Here I tried to forget that I was an American, in the hopes of becom- ing an Israeli. In each place the point was driven home that I be- long to the respective minority group. home. It is something to behold; every town, valley or seashore. It is evidence that the wandering is over. This the American can never feel. The dilemma of Jewish or Amer- ican identity is an interesting com- mentary on human beings. The majority group in any society seems to stroke its ego by iden- tifying and marking the minority as different. The minority thus grows to feel different, to seek out its own members, and to iso- late itself into its own sub-cul- ture. If this is the experience of man, as I am convinced it is, then I am compelled to admit that even the Chosen People in the Chosen Land have net escaped this dilemma. Perhaps this is the most inexcus- able irony of the 20th Century. Advice to Lawyers Planning on Aliya for Israel from Rome. the rest of the exams during the The record player reportedly was apprenticeship (stash) period. Fur- handed to a passenger by an Arab ther information may be obtained woman. The plane returned to by writing to: The Chamber of Rome. Advocates, 2 Hasoreg, Jerusalem, Further details were not known Israel. when The Jewish News went to "After being here for one year, press. I now realize my mistakes. I came to Israel with too little capital, For The Very Best • not enough experience and far too little Hebrew. I did manage NURSERY PROGRAM to pass the Hebrew proficiency Art Linkletter Schools for Kids section of the bar exam and was 12 We A Evergreen 13 Mlle A Mom Southfield Royal 0.5 offered an apprenticeship with the 357 - 1215 588 - 0300 ministry of tourism legal depart- Free Bus Transporlatto, too! ment. I was faced with the deci- sion of accepting the offer, which would have paid $75 per month for the next two years, or returning Proscription to the States with the dim hope that in another 10 years I might try again. I chose the latter. "In the meantime, before leav- ing Israel I have been working closely with a group of attorneys in the hope of organizing a legal aid program for Israel's poor, My experience as a legal Najd attor- ney in the Detroit area gave me the impetus to try and help organ- ize the fledging program now be- ing set up in Israel, In his article written for Tau Epsilon Rho's "The Summons" un- der the title "Finding Your Way in the Israeli Legal System," Mi- chael Serling, a member of the fraternity's graduate c h a p t e r, "The program is headed here by commences with a bitter anecdote: attorney Fred Weisgal, an im- When I informed the Israeli migrant attorney from Baltimore. Immigration Authorities that I When I return to the States I plan intended to immigrate to Israel, on furthering these efforts in my their comment was, "Great (Tov)—what's your occupation?" spare time. From that side of the world I will concentrate mainly When I replied that I was a lawyer, the comment was, "You on fundraising. The program re- lies mostly on money raised from had to tell me that." Jewish charitable contributions He states that he never forgot throughout the world." this incident and after a year's "Any lawyer interested in this residence in Israel he admonishes program may contact attorney that for an American to practice Fred Weisgal, in care of the Min- law in Israel requires much ideal- istry of Justice, 21 Jaffa Rd., ism and devotion to Israel. He ad- Jerusalem, Israel. vises not counting on making too much money in such practice, that For Romantics Only while many do well "there is a saying that if one were to throw Jocelyn & Her Gypsies a stone through the center of the Strolling Strings country from north to south, the love Songs in ony Language stone would most likely strike a 354-3149 cat or an attorney. (There are wild cats every - where in this coun- try)." He explains: the profession is overcrowded, it is highly competi- tive, it is important that the new- comer learn the Hebrew language. He points out: "Since all lawyers are obligated to do an apprentice- ship (stash in Hebrew) for very low compensation, the burdens upon the young lawyer often be- come overbearing." He adds: "In real facts and figures an attorney with less than two years' experience must do an additional two-year apprentice- ship before he can receive cer- tification. The pay for this ap• prenticeship varies from a maxi- mum of $120 per month down to a minimum of $60 per month. The former figure includes a subsidy from the Jewish Agen- The amazing phenomenon is that each place has awakened in me ,a sense of immense pride in both my American and Jewish heritage. Those people in either place, who have not experienced the richness of both backgrounds'! will never appreciate the freedom of mobility which Americans pos- sess, just as the Americans will Serling offers further advice: never know what it means to be "One advantage offered to the a Jew' with enormous pride in the immigrant attorney from the Unit- very existence of a JEWISH state. ed States is that there are many America for me is the place English-speaking immigrants liv- w here all is possible—both good ing in Israel today. They have and had It is the world experi- come here from the United States. mental showcase for the mixing Canada, South Africa. England of man. It is the great democra- and Australia. They offer a ready- tic dream that has yet to be proven made market for the native Eng- myth or reality This the Israeli lish speaking attorney. 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