THE DETROIT JEWISH NEWS
26—Friday, October 3, 1969

Sue Ellen Simon to Ired
La ro. Rifk in ofSagiiia-w

Husbands 'Tired, Broke and Satisfied'

Mrs. Nosan Named
Action Day Head

Mrs. Pearl Nosan will be chair-
man of Israel Bond Action Day,
Oct. 19, it was announced by Mrs.
Morris L. Schaver, . Israel Bond
Women's Division chairman.
This will be the /annual Israel
Bond High Holy

Day Collection
Day, a nd hun-
dreds of volun-
teers will take
part in convert-
ing the High Holy
Day pledges into
cash for Israel. A
total of $1,642,850
was pledged in
the Israel Bond Nosan
High Holy DayAppeal here.
Volunteers will meet at 10 a.m.
at the Israel Bond Office, 24611
Greenfield, Southfield, for a light

breakfast.

Mrs. Nosan, who has just re-
turned from Israel, served as
1969 Israel Bond Fashion Show
Mr. and Mrs. Irving Simon of
chairman and has received na-
Oldham Rd., Southfield, announce
the engagement of their daughter ; tional recognition for her leader-
ship in the Jewish National
Sue Ellen to Larry S. Rifkin, son
Fund.
of Mr. and Mrs. William H. Rifkin

MISS SUE SIMON

Seeking volunteers, she said
of Saginaw.
The bride-elect graduated from "Israel needs action from you-
the University of Michigan where ' Not the action of leaving your
she was affiliated with Delta Phi homes: not the action of bearing
Epsilon Sorority. The prospective arms and not the action of endur-
bridegroom graduated from Miami ing hardship. Israel needs action
University in Ohio, where he was from you—only to give your time
a member of Zeta Beta Fraternity. as an act of faith in Israel's fu-
A November wedding is planned. ture to help collect cash on Israel
Bond pledges."
Volunteers are asked to call the
Criterion Singles Plan
Israel Bond office, 352-6770.

Jewish Wires Really gate, Say Researchers

and take and include a highly
developed art of quarreling which
resolves disputes and which is one
of the reasons why the Jewish
divorce rate in the United States
is half the national average, ac-
cording. to a new book on the Jew-
ish wife.
A summary of the book. "The
Jewish Wife." published in the
current Ladies Home Journal, in-
dicated the view of researchers
Given Schwartz and Barbara
Wyden that "perhaps no other
ethnic group" members "can out-
do them at this art" of quarreling.
"A Jewish husband and wife I
will spend hour after hour storm-
ily ventilating differences of opin-
ion while other couples stew quiet-
ly all the way to the divorce
court."
Part of the explanation, accord-
ing to the book, is that "The Jew-
' ish wife tends to be an equal to
her husband, sometimes 'more
equal' than he is, sometimes less"
but "she is never a doormat."
The Jewish wife is more likely
to place emphasis on her hus-

-Border Crossing Sunday

Criterion Club for single adults
has arranged a trip to the Sunken
Gardens in Windsor Sunday after-
noon with dinner to follow at a
Canadian restaurant.
The group will leave 1:30 p.m.
by motorcade from the parking lot
Bozo the Clown and Mr. Whoo-
assembly point on Greenfield Rd.
dini, children's television personal-
near the northwest corner of Seven
ities,
will entertain with games
Mile Rd. Guests will be welcome.
For information. tall Betty Wein, and magic 3 p.m. Nov. 2 at Ann
Arbor Pioneer High School. where
herg. 341-9443.
the Ann Arbor Chapter of Hadas-
sah will sponsor a fund-raising
event for Youth Aliya.
As a special added attraction, the
Balloon Man will twist balloons
into animal shapes while relating
animal fables.
In 1934, Youth Aliya was created
to save a generation of Jewish
"children from the terrors of Nazi
Europe. Since then, through Youth
Aliya, .Hadassah has helped reset-
tle, rehabilitate and educate in Is-
rael nearly 135,000 Jewish youth
from 80 lands. Currently some 12.-
000 are being trained in 267 Youth
Aliya installations, cooperative set-
tlements. youth villages and day
centers.
Mrs. Marvin U. Gerber is chair-
Spaghetti Dinner with
man of the project marking Youth
meatless mushroom
Aliya's 35th anniversary. Ticket
sauce and grated cheese.
chairman is Mrs. Paul Bass: post-
ers, Mrs. Ralph Rostow. Tickets
for the show may be obtained by
mail from Hadassah, 1942 Pepper-

Ann Arbor Show
to Raise Funds
for Youth Aliya

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hand's emotional needs than the
Gentile wife, says the researchers,
who add the Jewish wife believes

whenever possible, being cheerful
to keep up his morale."
Non - Jewish
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the Jewish wife "displays a not-
table lack of inhibitions" in her
sex life. The study quoted psy-
chiatrist Bruno Bettleheim as de-
claring that with Jews, "sex is
taken for granted. Sex is sex, not
a religion. It just feels good." An
almost 60-year-old Jewish wife told
the researchers that "Jewish men
make better husbands because
Jewish women keep them tired,
broke and satisfied."
The researchers reported that
they conducted a survey in 1960

in "commiserating with the hus-
when business problems
band
arise, catering to his moods, con-
stantly building up his ego and,

MISS FRIEDA MINC

Mr. and Mrs. Max Mine of Cloy- ISO
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erlawn Ave., Oak Park, anounce
the engagement of their daughter
Frieda to Norman Alan Platt, son
of Mr. and Mrs. Samuel W. Platt
of Rosemary Ave., Oak Park.
I Miss Minc is a graduate of
Large Selection of
Wayne State University. Mr. Platt
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WOMAN'S AUXILIARY will meet
12:30 p.m. Wednesday at the
Esther Berman Building. The pro-
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stitute — an adventure in Israel"
will be presented by Naomi Engel
and Sandra Gross, participants in
the suirmer program. with Rabbi
Jay Braverman as moderator. A
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Young' and Marrieds
Plan Annual Brunch

An organizational meeting of the
Jewish Center's Young Marrieds
and on Main Street: Englander's will be held 8 p.m. Oct. 15 at the
on South University: Magnavox main building.
Participants will investigate di-
Home Entertainment Center in
Maple Village: and _Pear's Cloth- rections the group might take and.
if possible, begin to set up a pro-
ing in Ypsilanti.
- gram.
For information, call Ralph Si-
rotkin of the Center group services
division, DI 1-4200.

LUCTION

searchers assert, tend "to put
more weight on physical assets
which the Jewish wife pretty
much takes for granted."
The report asserted also that

of a random sample of Jewish
wives in Greater New York, Los
Angeles, Chicago and Philadelphia,
mostly in middle class and - upper-
middle class neighborhoods, with
the same number of non-Jewish
wives polled in the same areas.
The results of the 1966 study be-
came the guidelines for personal
follow-up interviews with many
Jewish wives on which the report
s based.

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