Bnai Moshe Sisterhood Mrs. Brickner Here for Luncheon Meeting Plans Donor Luncheon The .Sisterhood of Cong. Bnai of Emanu-El Women Moshe will hold its first donor The Suburban Community • • Suburban Dads Relinquish `Family Head' Role to Mom By the Oak-Woodser situation is fraught with prob- "Her husband, nice person lems. He writes: though he may be, has become ". . . Children's moral codes so completely engrossed in and ethical standards require business • affairs that he gen- example and support, and these erally gives little attention to often suffer because teen-agers spiritual and cultural matters fail to receive active and direct that involve his home and guidance from their fathers. family. The husband's failure "The authority associated has led inevitably to the wife's with the father's role in the new status." family is often lacking. The In this neat, concise form, youth who may be rebelling Rabbi Albert I. Gordon de- against a mother's overpro- scribes how the American Jew- tectiNeness finds himself with- ish family in the suburbs is out his father's guidance becoming matriarchal in char- when he needs it most." acter, a switch from the old Looking at the father's role patriarchal idea. The quote is taken from a in years past, we know either chapter in Rabbi Gordon's from our own experience or book, "Jews in Suburbia," a through books written about volume which has caused wide- the times, that dad, even after spread interest because of its working a 12-hour day, found open and direct approach to time to spend with his family family life in suburban com- and to give guidance and ad- minister necessary discipline. munities. The fault lies not in the fact He makes the interesting observation that no syna- that he works at business to the gogue in America could func- exclusion of his family. More tion well today if it were correctly, it's what he does with not for "the women who help his leisure moments. to blueprint the program, There are many temptations agitate for its adoption and to take the man out of the support it with their efforts." house—and he's not entirely to The role of the mother, then, blame for wishing diversion in according to Rabbi Gordon, is the form of golf, bowling or becoming more and more sig- even cards, if he enjoys it. nificant, both in having respon- What many fathers fail to sibility for upbringing in the realize, however, as Rabbi Gor- home and in planning outside don indicates, is that their re- activities for the child in school, . sponsibility is more than eco- synagogue and extra-curricular nomic — more than providing programs. material wealth and comfort Is this burden on the mother for the family. good for her, or more import- ant, good for the family? Plan Benefit Party Rabbi Gordon believes the A games party to benefit Hadassah Medical Supplies will LINCOLN APPLIANCE be held by Oak Park East and West groups of Hadassah at REPAIR 8:30 p.m., Monday at Hayim All makes of Washers and Greenberg Center, 19161 Schae- Dryers repaired in your home. Bendix Duomatic Specialists fer. Prizes will be awarded. Tickets may be obtained from For Prompt Service Mrs. David Berman, LI 8-0323, WA 5-9184 or at the door. . Community Interest in Northland Center $8 Million Venture A Cleveland real estate de- veloper and a local realty firm this week are causing a stir in the local community with their announcement, together with the Northland Center Corp., of a multi-million dollar office buildin. center to be erected adjacent to the present Northland shopping center. Halley H. Lipp, Cleveland investor, in a statement re- leased here, indicated that the Lipp Arden first of two twin buildings will be constructed in late spring or early summer. To be called Northland Tow- ers : the 12-story structures will be built at a cost of $8,000,000. Construction of the second unit will depend on the speed in which the first is occupied. Manuel E. Arden, of the M. E. Arden Co. Realtors will lease the space in the building. The development, one of the first of its kind in the nation, will be the forerunner of an integrated series of buildings, including a motor hotel, rec- reation facilities and related buildings. In Detroit for the announce- ment was Stanley Simon, of the H. L. Vokes Co., of Cleveland, which will be general con- tractors, architects and engi- neers for the building. Arden stated that a number of national firms have already evidenced interest to lease space in the proposed build- ings. He pointed out that the site, at 8 Mile-Greenfield-North- western, is within a half-hour's drive of Detroit's central busi- ness district and can be reached by major bus lines now serving the Northland shopping center. 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Guest speaker will be Mrs. Saul Cohen, president of the Fannie Gluck Chapter, Miz- rachi Women. Each member is requested to bring a gift for the white elephant grab bag. Information may be obtained by calling Mrs. David Weiner, WE. 4-9859, or Mrs. Harold Shapiro, LI. 5-5750. Pre-Hanukah Southfield Event to Feature Review A book review of "Eva" to be presented by Mrs. Mordecai Hal- pern will highlight the meeting of Southfield group of South Oakland County Chapter of Hadassah at 12:30 p.m. Tuesday, at the Ten Mile Jewish Corn- munity Center. Also on the program will be a candlelight ceremony com- memorating the birthday of Henrietta S'zold, founder of Ha- dassah, and a Hanukah sing led by Cantor Hyman Adler of Cong. Bnai David. Hanukah gift items and wrappings may be Mrs. Barnett Brickner, wife of the late Rabbi Brickner,• of Cleveland's Fairmount Temple, will address a dessert lunch- e o n meeting of the Temple Emanu-El Sis- terhood at 1 2 : 3 0 m., Monday, in the temple, 14450 W. 10 Mile, Oak Park. A leader of h e National Mrs. Brickner Federation of Temple Sister- hoods, Mrs. Brickner will speak on "Building Spiritual Values ;in the Home." A Hanukah workshop will be conducted at the meeting. Widely traveled as a lecturer, Mrs. Brickner is a national founder of Hadassah and one of the pioneer women in Jewish education. In her own city, she is a board member of many Jewish organizations, active in inter-faith work and on the board of the Cleveland Sym- phony. Mothers with young children, ;3 to 7-years-old will be able to leave their youngsters in a su- pervised play school. The meet- ing is open to all women in the community. luncheon since moving to its new site in Oak Park at 12:30 p.m., Monday, in Holiday Manor. The luncheon will feature a musical play produced and di- rected by Shoshana Freedman. An all-sisterhood cast will par- ticipate. Reservations may be made by contacting chairman of the day, Mrs. Seymour Fried; ticket chairman, Mrs. Robert Middle- man, or assistants Mesdames Andrew Iczkovitz and William Gottlieb. Classified ads bring fast results! HANUKAH GIFT SPECIALS Layaway Now and Save! 20% Off ON All Wool (Imported) Suburban Coats and Overcoats Complete Selection of Suits * Slacks Sport Coats . Expert alterations on Men's and Ladies' Clothes TUXEDO RENTALS UHS Oak Park Branch Slates Hanukah Workshop Perfect Individual Fitting The Oak Park Branch of the United Hebrew Schools will offer a Hanukah workshop and social to members of the com- munity at 8:30 p.m. Thursday, at the 10 Mile Jewish Center. 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