ure y =men ary By PHILIP SLOMOVITZ Friday, July 26, 1957 'Memories of a Catholic Girlhood' Offers Revealing Admission of Irreparable Family Breach in Mixed Marriage B-G 'Warns Against Delusions on Israel's Security; Says Ile Is Jew First, Then Israeli; Goldmann Enters Controversy With Premier tion "unreal." Despite great Actions Committee that he (Later Story on Page 5) achievements in many was first a Jew and then an JERUSALEM, (JTA)—Jews spheres, the State of Israel is Very interesting descriptions of her Jewish grandmother by throughout the world were Israeli, because the State of still not yet' consolidated and Mary McCarthy, in her "Memories of a Catholic Girlhood," pub- warned by Israel Premier David Israel was created for and Israel for many years must lished by Harcourt ; Brace & Co. (383 Madison, N.Y. 17), lend Ben-Gurion not to be under by the merits of the Jewish have the cooperation of world special significance to her book for Jewish readers. the "dangerous delusion" that people. "But the future of the Jewry, he said. Miss McCarthy, who lives in Manhattan with her husband, Israel's security problems have Jewish people from now on Taking exception to Ben- Bowden Broadwater, and who has a son by a previous marriage been solved by the Sinai cam- depends on the existence, to the eminent critic, Edmund Wilson, is being acclaimed as one paign. He also warned against growth and strength of the Gurion's distinction between State," he added. settlers, whom the Prime Min,- of America's cleverest writers. Her new book leaves no doubt assuming that the present divi- Israel, he reiterated, does not ister called the builders, and about it. It is a witty book, written with a sense of realism. sion in the Arab camp At the very outset, in a note To the Reader, Miss McCarthy strengthens Israel's security. represent any non-Israeli Jews, Zionists, wham he called help- attests to the realities of her stories: "The assumption that I have This is a "mistaken" notion, he but every Jew is a member of ers, Dr. Goldmann warned that the Jewish nation and the unity if non-Israeli Jews were rele- `made them up' is surprisingly prevalent, even among people who said. the status of donors know me. "That Jewish grandmother of yours . . . .!" Jewish Addressing the Zionist Ac- of nationality • binds all Jews gated to only, they would soon cease to to a common historic, eternal friends have chided me, skeptically, as though to say, 'Come now, tions Committee, now meeting donate. Non-Israeli Jews feel you don't expect us to believe that your grandmother was really here, the Israel Premier em- fate. Thus, e n-G urion con- and want a role of being "jun- phasized that the Arab leaders Jewish.' Indeed she was . . . ." ior partners" to take part in "Her hair was naturally black, black as a raven's wing and may argue among themselves tinued, there is a "deep abyss" the historic responsibilities of in the non-Israeli Jew, and in about hegemony, but Jews with a fine silky gloss, like loose skeins of embroidery thread. building Israel, he said. When she was over eighty and bedridden, the first sprinkling must not forget that the only every Jewish heart there are He warnedthat Ben-Gurion's thing that unites the Arabs is tragic moments with the dan- of white hairs began to appear in her thick, shining permanent . conception contained the danger ger of complete annihilation hatred of Israel. "She had been a beautiful woman, 'the most beautiful of dividing the Jewish people always lurking. Only in Israel "Na good will come to Israel woman in Seattle,' my friends' mothers used to tell me ... A into Israelis on the one hand Biblical Jewish face that might have belonged to the young from the split up of the Arab are Jews free as men and as conglomerate on the other camp into Soviet satellites and Jews and only in Israel can and a Rachel when Jacob first saw her." the Jew find complete fulfil- who within 10 to 20 years would American satellites," he added. The granddaughter had pressed her to know why the grand ment and natural prospects of not understand each other. This lady had picked the non-Jewish "Grandpa instead of one of He asserted that arms in Arab living as a Jew and as an indi- threat, he added, was greater the others," since she had many suitors. She thought he would hands, whether supplied by the vidual without conflict, he to the non-Zionist than to the East or the West, were intended be good to her, she finally conceded. "Grandpa was always good Zionist, since the latter could by Arab leaders to be used said. to me," she resumed tranquilly. "The Third Jewish Common- be reconciled to the eventual against Israel, not against Com- Miss McCarthy writes about the three sisters in her grand- wealth rallied the support of fulfilment of the Zionist mission munism or democracy. mother's family and about family reactions: Aunt Rose "had not all Jews, thus making the wall while the former would be un- He expressed the opinion let the Protestant ministers tempt her away from her religion, between Zionist and non-Zionist able to fill the void. He said the that the Sinai campaign in- but she was a truly open person, able to cross barriers naturally crumble," he said. He was re- Ben-Gurion approach was prob- creased Israel's prestige ferring to the charter given the ably the cause of the present because she did not notice they were there. Most of the Jews "among its friends, enemies World Zionist Organization misunderstanding and the cur- in 'Seattle lived a life apart, concerned with bar mitzvahs and and the disinterested." It was which says "Israel hopes for rent gap in the interpretations weddings, and family and business affairs; a few, with German- sounding names, managed to cross into the Gentile world and not a coincidence that Pakis- the cooperation of all Jews as of the spirit of the charter given tan's Premier just now advises individuals or groups." get their sons pledged to regular fraternities at the university, to the World Zionist Organiza- the Arabs to recognize Israel leaving temple and observance behind them. Aunt Rosie was a Dr. Nahum Goldmann, pres- tion. and India's Premier advises unique case. Her Jewishness—that is, her bounce and volubility Dr. Goldmann concluded by ident of the World Zionist the same thing to his friend —was a positive asset to her in her dealings with the Gentile Organization, took issue with stating that the Premier who Nasser, he declared. ascendancy. If my grandmother's marriage (to a Gentile) had Premier Ben-Gurion's argu- could say that he was first a There may be some willing- ment that Israel was built Jew and second an Israeli would made it a little easier for Aunt Rosie to get around, Aunt Rosie, I think, never suspected it; she had a lively self-conceit and no ness on the periphery of the only by its settlers, and that — by placing the Jew foremost social envy or ambition. To her good-humored mind, being Jew- Arab camp to come closer to its fate depends entirely on — go down in history as the Israel, the Premier added, but its populace. Dr. Goldmann greatest Zionist leader of alf_ ish was simply a matter of religion." Thus, we get a picture here of the process of assimilation. the rulers of the Arab coun- called the Premier's concep- time. Miss McCarthy continues: "Each of the three sisters had a dif- tries continue to incite their ferent attitude toward their Jewish heritage, perhaps in each case peoples against Israel. "One conditioned by the man they had married. Aunt Eva—Mrs. Aron- cannot forget the bitter fact son, whose husband, Uncle Sig, had long ago passed on—was a that the lead in this incitement typical wealthy widow - of Jewish high society. She traveled a has been taken by the press of good deal, with a rather hard set who had connections in Port- such a great power as the Soviet By I. SHARGIL land, San Francisco, New York, and even Paris; she gambled, Union; and they are not sat- (JTA Correspondent in Tel Aviv) with incitement alone — (Copyright, 1957, Jewish Telegraphic Agency, Inc.) . isfied and went to resorts and fashionable hotels in season; when she TEL AVIV — Practicing sorcery sounds like a medieval story. was in Seattle, she was an habituee of the Jewish country club, Soviet arms flow to Syria and hi the 20th Century sorcery is usually associated with Darkest where they golfed in the daytime and played bridge for very Egypt." Discussing arguments of "neu- Africa. If it appears in modern Israel, one can be sure that some high stakes at night. The scale of living of these people was far beyond anything conceived of by the local Christian haute tralists," Ben-Gurion said there extortion of money from primitive immigrants is involved bourgeoisie, which was unaware of their existence . . . Aunt Eva, were two types of neutrality, The Tel Aviv district court is now hearing the case of 45 I think, hardly realized that the world contained persons who ideological and politico-military year-old Rabbi Ovadya Barti who is charged with extorting and that while Israel could not were not Jewish. She, too, never knew envy ..." etcetera. money under the claim of benefitting his client, Meoded Barzilai, How did her grandfather feel about Jews? Miss McCarthy be neutral as between demo- a merchant and owner of several movie houses, with the aid of does not know. He never attended church, except to act as a pall- cracy and totalitarianism, Israel supernatural powers. ' bearer at a funeral. Her grandmother had been courted by was willing to sign peace with The first question put to the victim was, how could he be- many suitors, she had Jewish beaux also, and "did not dis- the Arabs even though there lieve in Rabbi •arti's contacts with alleged Supreme Beings. is not a single democracy among tinguish between the two kinds." The reply was rather unexpected: since Rabbi Barti promised As to Miss McCarthy's personal. sentiments: "I myself had them.. to make him "King of Israel" and since be believed that a King He stressed that there could a curious attitude, I now realize, in which the crudest anti- is due to be crowned in Israel, why, then, should it not be he? be no greater mistake than the Semitism (`Ikey-Mose-Abie,' I used to chant under my breath, During the court hearing Meoded Barzilai described how to myself in the convent) mingled with infatuation and with belief that Israel could assure he met Rabbi Barti and how this became an acquaintance genuine tolerance and detachment. I liked Uncle Mose and Aunt her safety by politico military of several years during which he paid the rabbi something Rosie far better than any other older people I knew, and `Ikey- neutrality because the immedi- Mose-Abie' represented what I supposed others would think of ate danger to Israel was not like 11,000 Israel pounds—the equivalent of about $6,000. It started in 1952 when Barzilai's wife was very ill. Rabbi them. It was a sort of defiance. If I identified a little bit of myself from the West nor the East but with those others, my dead mother had gone much further; one "from within the area in which Barti was called in to try his cure. He took a piece of paper and day, I found a letter she had written to my grandmother Mc- we live." Neutrality would not after burning it, a few lines appeared on it "signed" by the Carthy in which she spoke of an evening 'with the Hebrews.' . p lessen this danger, he pointed three Archangels: Raphael, Gabriel and Michael. The message stated that a talisman was to be found on the roof. This was Perhaps I was too sensitive on my mother's behalf. No secret was out. The basic principle of found and properly smeared with the blood of a chicken. But ever made of the family connection with Aunt Rosie and Aunt Eva . . . I used to hear about some distant cousin having a bar Israel's polky was, and would it did not help Mrs. Barzilai's illness. Barzilai went to the Rabbi's village for another prescrip- remain, that "under no cir- mitzvah, and once I was taken to a Jewish wedding, which fas- cumstance will we assist ag- tion and again he was shown a "message" from the three Arch-. cinated me because it was held at night in a hotel ballroom. gressive designs against any angels stating that a treasure "hidden since the days of Crea- Nevertheless, there was something—a shying away from the subject, an aversion to naming it in words—so much so that I country regardless of its in- tion" awaits discovery by Barzilai who should pay 1,800 Israel ternal received moral sup- pounds to Rabbi Barti's wife who was, according to the Rabbi, was startled, one morning, when I was about 16, to hear my port from the Soviet Union the Angels' treasurer. The money was placed under a. stone in grandmother allude to. 'my faith.' I had been talking to her about and material aid from Czech- Barti's yard and under the same stone a receipt was found later. my disbelief in. God, and to my surprise she grew quite agitated. oslovakia and he expressed When Barzilai wanted to keep it, he was warned by Rabbi Barti She no longer practiced her faith, she declared, but she was certain that there was a kind God. Who understood and Who regret that these two coun- to burn it. Receipts would be sent to him on "Judgment Day." There was of course no treasure and when Barzilai started tries had turned against Israel. watched over everything. She spoke with great feeling and em- He praised the "permanence" asking questions, Rabbi Barti produced another "letter" from phasis—a rare thing in our relations." at Israel's friendship with the the three Archangels saying that the Crown of Israel was to be Then we have this recollection: "My grandmother's brother United States and stressed the redeemed and be bestowed on Barzilai. Under this pretext Elkan, whom she saw rarely but was not on bad terms with, strengthening of ties with Barzilai was asked to forward to the treasurer—Mrs. Barti- was never, to my knowledge, in our house, nor were his wife France particularly during the various sums of money amounting to thousands of pounds. and his numerous progeny. This leads me to wonder whether When Barzilai became restive he was given a number of past year. Israel, he asserted, it was not the Jewish connection that had put the bar on en- tertaining." Here we have a revealing admission of the irrepar- can and does assist the back- parcels, containing "the King's Robes," but was warned not to ward peoples of Asia and Africa open them before two years had passed. Later, another parcel able family break caused by mixed marriages. The Jewish grandmother was bitterly offended by some and this assistance not only was sent to Barzilai "from the Archangels" mailed from Tiberias happenings in her life. She was deeply hurt by her daughter's opened new vistas for Israel in Post Office. Unintentionally, he opened one of the parcels and passing. The first offense, Miss McCarthy imagines, "had some- the two continents but, ultim- found it to contain only stones. Rabbi Barti had of course a convincing reply: the robes thing to do with her Jewish pride and sensitiveness; some injury ately would also break the "wall was dealt her early in her marriage, and it may have been a very of hostility" of the Arabs. In have turned into stones since "the Angels are angry that yOu small thing—a chance word, even—that caused her to draw back the second decade of its exist- have opened the parcel before the appointed time." Barti also into an august silence on this topic, ,a silence that lasted until ence, Israel must bring in her gave Barzilai instructions which the latter followed rather care- her death . . .." third million people and revive fully. In one instance he fasted 40 days in Tiberias, to make Miss McCarthy's evaluations of an intermarriage offers chal- the wastelands of the Negev, himself ready for the Crown. Barzilai's patience finally came to an end and he demanded lenging food for thought as to the workability of mixed mar- he said. He called on world riages. It introduces questions on the wholesomeness of total Jewry for a partnership of the Crown immediately or else he would approach police. Rabbi Barti offered to return 2,000 Israeli pounds in cash and the re- assimilation: do the ends justify the chances taken? Is there gen- "deeds not words." Expressing his personal out- mainder in installments. But Barzilai no longer believed in uine happiness in the mixing of faiths and races in marriages? In any event, Miss McCarthy does offer food for thought— look, the Israel Premier told Rabbi Barti. He went to the police who arrested Rabbi Barti. the members of the Zionist And Barzilai probably will never become the King of Israel. while telling a good story in splendid and enviable literary style. Sorcery in Israel